TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Karatemum - I have to agree with Tracy here. And please don't think we're judging or being bitchy. I think you are a very strong woman, if you were a wimp you would have never done so well in martial arts like you did lol.

You have to go and sit and think long and hard about what he's behaviour is doing to you and your little boy. It's not fair on both of you and sorry for being blunt now but if he truely was committed to you and your son he will at least let you know he is ok and when he will be back, although I don't believe that running off into the night is the way you behave in a marriage in anycase.

We can all comment and give you advise but in the end the decision still lies with you - but please do me this favour and think long and hard about if you are truely happy. Life is too short to waste on being unhappy

KM - sorry i tend to agree with Tracy, maybe it sound harsh but he have to make up his mind, does he want to acting like a child the rest of his life or like adult, and he have to set an example for his children.

Tracy, yip i'm so annoyed with him telling me every night he's tired, i dont even bother telling him its that time of the month lol, i just said this week, seems we wont be making babies if this is gonna be a everyday thing

OOOOOOHHH I envy every1 thats going on holiday ai ai ai ai
Lalie, you are soooo lucky he he

Ooooh 2KM......I'm not the right one to comment here.....it's sounding sooooo positive for you!!!

Karatemum, I'm sorry again to hear how he is being.....but I'm going to be very honest here.........
What on earth posesses YOU to want another baby with him then - especially now that you say it's not the first time he has done this?!?!
He (and I may also be out of line here too) doesn't deserve another child!!! I know you personally may be wanting to overlook this behaviour in order to have another baby...but really, is it worth all this?!?!
I hate being honest in these situations with anyone, but I just feel you are being so used here, and you don't really see how emotionally abusive it really is to you!?!?

Strikkie : Isn't it strange how we think our men will NEVER be too tired for sex? Adn yet, when I was in the last 2 BD marathons, DH really battled to find the ooooomfff he needed.....but of course, when AF is here, he can't wait for her to leave! Go figure....
Maybe some serious vitamins are needed there....StaminoGro also helped my DH.

Iz : Can't wait for your results!!

Laliek : Lucky bugger.......at least you going on leave!!! I'm sure you can't wait!!
I just wish I could get into the festive spirit altogether!!

So of course i am tempted to go out at lunch and buy an HPT. I don't think doing it that late in the afternoon is such a good idea because it probably wont show, will have to do it in the morning but then what if AF shows tonight then I have wasted another 20 bucks! I know it sounds stupid but I have thrown so much money down the drain of POAS'ing for nothing. I am on CD 29 now and still a clear skin and no real AF cramping, just a heavy abdomen with slight twinges here and there. Other thing is I am one of those people that test their cervix position and feel off and on and (Sorry TMI) Mine is not high but it is soft which it normally is not at AF time.

Tracy - you have no idea, what sucks is it's not the first time, I don't know why I do it (I guess I am too soft and love him too much). I just wish he would call or sms so at least I know he isn't hurt or dead. the morning is going slow, I can't wait till 11 to be able to check if he came in to work.

Lalie - unfortunately yes he has done it before (several times) I have had my crazy b**** times lol, I am not calm, but rather composed, I'm at work, the ladies I am in the office with have both been awesome sio I have had support and b**** sessions lol!

2kid - I know he does, I honestly don't want Tadhg to go through it, hubby also works late so Tadhg is used to not seeing him in the evenings before bed, but soon he will cotton on as to something being wrong, especially with me stressed. My belly is feeling the same as yours

Andy - I agree, I think I will contact the FS and delay it till next year, I really don't know what my so called hubby is playing at any more - we didn't even have a fight, all was fine then he didn't pitch home, had tried calling all night with him not picking up then he switched off the phone. No message nothing.

klk - I wouldn't say I'm ok, rather just coping. I just don't get it I really am at a loss for words now. Sorry about your spotting getting more, guess you, I and 2kid seem to be starting

Ilse - we were not planning a 2nd baby to fix anything, but that's why now whats the point. I don't know what he does that's why it's AWOL! Honestly I don't care what he does rather that he is home. We didn't even have a damn fight so no idea why he did it this time.

AFM - my temp was still up this morning but feeling the cramps starting so I'm sure AF will be here by this evening or tomorrow evening.

Hi girls

How are you?

Tanz, i'm sooooo sorry for your loss, i'm still in shock. (((((hugggzzzzz)))))))))

Hayley, keep on bd'ing that 2 lines wont go away this month

Klk, awwww man that horrible witch just dont know when to take a hike and just go away!!!! Sorry about AF.....

Ilze, Izelle FXFXFXFX

Sue, what an (_?_) ( dumb arse!!!!!!!!!! How dare he?? I would be breaking his furniture and alot of other stuff !!!!!

Tracy: sorry (((hugs)))

KM - i also would be furious, he is acting like a 5yr old!!!!

Hi everyone else, sorry if i missed somebody......

AFM - OPK still negative last night and dh is so tired everynight dont know what to give him just too boost his energylevels aijaijai!!!!!!!!!