Any hiv positive moms?

Hi ladies.... newposmom.. i hope everything went well with your nunu. @mom2be2010 it's easier than u think, you don't have to tell gran about your status. You can ask your doc to prescribe something to dry up the milk then tell her you have no milk to breastfeed baby, even if u try, nothing will come out, those pills work wonders... i bought a coolerbox and kept it in my room for the baby syrup, maybe u could try that too... good luck.

@bonni- same here with hubby, but i think the acceptance stage can put one in that state. Try to see a psychologist together but make sure it's a good one coz a bad one can make the situation even worse. Sometimes we don't realise that our men are much weaker than we are and we need to think on their behalf and give them our full support. Remember, they never had moomie to turn to when the pregnancy started so they haven't had the supportive friends that we met here

Hi ladies.... newposmom.. i hope everything went well with your nunu. @mom2be2010 it's easier than u think, you don't have to tell gran about your status. You can ask your doc to prescribe something to dry up the milk then tell her you have no milk to breastfeed baby, even if u try, nothing will come out, those pills work wonders... i bought a coolerbox and kept it in my room for the baby syrup, maybe u could try that too... good luck.

@bonni- same here with hubby, but i think the acceptance stage can put one in that state. Try to see a psychologist together but make sure it's a good one coz a bad one can make the situation even worse. Sometimes we don't realise that our men are much weaker than we are and we need to think on their behalf and give them our full support. Remember, they never had moomie to turn to when the pregnancy started so they haven't had the supportive friends that we met here

hey ladies it nice toknow m not the only one m so scared, my due date is next month and have started on my arv's but stillm so scared cos i stay with my granny and i havent told her about my status cos i just know she willnot understand and probably she will get a heart attach,i am so stressing on how i will pull off this..

Hi Ladies,

NewPosMom, Virginmary is rite since i got back from work i fil like i am torrist most of the days im in Dbn or Pta im even tinking of getting a full tym helper but im scared bcoz the lil ones tend to bond mo with them then u the real mom even worse since we dont breast feed.
so this forces me in the evenings to be with him tired or not!

And im stressed out, my relationship with hubby is not doing well these days. he acts like everything is fine, he doesn't want to see the doctor, dont want to take vitamin tablets NOTHING.
sometimes i worry that he mite stil be in denial & sometimes i jus wanna give him a fat klap!!!!
im jus worn out tired, now that bby is here i jus want to relax & breath in qha! i did a lot of stressing when i was pregnant thank u.
am i being cold hearted???

Hi ladies, its been a very long time since I posted here. I couldn't log in to Moomie using my phone but now I'm back to work I can post anytime. My boy is 5 months today & tested negative at 6 weeks "PRAISE THE LORD". Ladies please lets not allow this forum to die, it helped me a lot when we were still on Pampers. I know we can help another moms too.

Newposmom.. hope it all went well with your lo.... you must be due for the tests soon... hang in there girl and pray.... IT'S NOT THAT WE START IGNORING U ONCE OUR BABIES TEST NEGATIVE IT'S JUST THAT IT COINCIDES WITH THE END OF MATERNITY LEAVE AND THERE'S LESS TIME TO CHAT

Hello

ladies i have been following this thread since "Pampers" days from when my lil sis told us she is expecting and she is positive. by the grace of the lord she gave birth to a beautiful baby and we got results that she is negative, I prayed ....and prayed so hard for her and the lord never disappointed us. I thank you all for words of encouragement and advises i received by just reading the thread and passing information to help and support my lil sis.

You rocks girl.....hohohohoho!