Hello Mommies
it has been a while since I have been on here!
I am officially 16 weeks
I have been so busy with work and travelling that I totally forgot to book my first trimester Down's test. Actually i think I subconsciously did not want to know.
So when i went for my scan on Monday, I mentioned this to my gynae and she sent to Pathcare to have blood drawn for the Down's test.
I received the dreaded call the next morning to inform me that I tested very high for Down's - 1:120 and that she recommends I have an amnio done to rule out any possibility. I was totally besides myself with worry.
She managed to get me into the Fetal Assessment Centre opposite the Kingsburg Hospital on Wednesday and I met with Dr Morris who was great at explaining everything.
She suggested that we first have a scan done to check for the physical signs like the space between the nuchal fold, the nose bone, a short leg bone, etc. If she ticked any of these boxes, then I would need to have the amnio or the harmony test which is non evasion - basically blood is drawn from the mum and sent to the US and you receive the results within 10 days - costs R10k and medical aid does not cover it. She said the amnio would cost around R6800 (again i had no idea it would cost this much!)
My family, friends and I have been praying so faithfully and all I did whilst she performed the scan was pray.
As she checked each one she said "Happiness, this is what we want to see" and my risk has now moved from 1:120 to 1:500. So i am not totally in the clear, but my risk is less.
I decided against the amnio, because of three reasons, even if i tested positive, that wasn't going to change my decision to have this baby i prayed so hard for, it carries a risk of miscarriage and it very costly.
So i am keeping the faith and staying positive!
Oh and it's a girl! Dad is over the moon and even though i secretly hoped it would be a boy, i am also so happy!
I feel more tired and tired in my second trimester than i was in my first, which is usually the other way about for most ladies - go figure.
My due date has moved to 6/11
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