November / December 2012 Babies

Good Morning Ladies

Punchysmum your MIL is too sweet or spoiling that kid and ruining her life in the process.

Hi Nadia welcome and congrats with your twins, how very nice, boy and a girl

My appointment went well, baby is now 1.6kg, booked at the hospital. I am so glad i am done with that now, i must consult every three weeks now because its now close to the end, i am 31 weeks now. Its going to cost me so much but not too bad coz its R400 per consultation, i hope i wont be doing the weekly appointments though.

Eyo people in my workplace gossip and our boss encourages it, it is so disgusting, i hate. i actually hate being here, i am counting the weeks like crazy, 6 weeks to go

Clueless and Pale how are you ladies holding up because i know the finish line is close for yall, envy you like crazy...

Hi Ladies, sorry to barge in here!
Jogami - welcome!!
I'm also expecting twins due date is 14 Jan 2012, Boy and a Girl!

Please keep us updated on the twins!!!

maseneo you so right
after that they think you have money because you live to your standards and know where to put a stop.
sorry but i keep telling hubby that you better sort out your family because i will. doesnt mean coz we living to our standards now we should support them. and they keep judging my family. i believe you create your own life the way you want it. strive for success and not wait for others to spoon feed you.
my motherinlaw is also to blame for she doesnt know where to put a STOP. she let this girls bf stay at her place inside her house with her. how do you do that at 25yrs.
you dont go to school then you say wa thwasa after it a bby on the way. gossh how these kids can do its amazing .
when is she going to enjoy her age? already a mother of two at 25yrs.. at 35?

scary
i am really pissed off.

go well to the doc and STOP stressing about that man.
have a supa long weekend

Hi clueless, we missed you, was starting to think you have delivered. you end is quiet near.

Ms-S and Punchysmum i think every family has those people that will just give you grey hairs and the sad part is the poor children and it just kills us to watch them suffer.

I am sorry to say but i do not know why God even gives these people children.

Ladies i will catch up with yall on Monday, i am going to the Doc and not coming to this hell hole and i will only tell them tomorrow morning that i am not coming i am sick coz they dnt want to let me see my doc.

Hi Ladies!

I have not delivered yet, still 36 weeks and going strong! Sorry for being so scarce, my office decided to cancel all access to forum websites, and hence I only have access through my phone. Every time I try to post a reply the forum logs me out! Missing all of you lots, and will post a longer reply tonight from hubby's tablet.

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Hi ladies

Welcome Jogami...all the best with your pregnancy. You must be very excited to be carrying twins. I would also like to know how your experience has been.

Punchysmum, I'm going through something similar with my SIL. Her husband abandoned her with two small kids, she's also 25, with no matric or job. You just need to have patience, there's no use complaining, because I'm sure your husband is having the same thoughts as you. And if you voice your complaints, the family will forever remember it. My SIL phones (more like, sends please-call-me's ) at least thrice a month asking for money. She can easily go to Sassa for non-support, but she doesn't want to. There's nothing we can do except talk to her, my dh just tries to help when he can because he hates seeing the kids suffer.

Mosaneo, your manager is really horrible! I hope he forgets about the warning, or learns some understanding. I'm late for work almost everyday, but because I don't have a supervisor, I can get away with it. Just hang in there, just a few more weeks.

Palesa, hope you enjoying every second of your maternity leave. I spend all my free time thinking about all the things I'm going to do in Cape Town with my mom when I'm finally on maternity leave. I'm just not looking forward to the drive down though, my legs start to cramp now already.

Momtoc, Jayden is a beautiful name. Glad you guys finally settled on something. Your weekend sounds jam-packed as usual, have fun!

Morning mommies
i will send you the pictures tomorrow. i am feeling sleepy and hungry than ever today don’t know why really.
mosaneo don’t get worked up it’s not worth it. i had the same problem in the early days of my pregnancy but i managed to sort it out and spoke to HR about it.
they are only happy when they need you but when you are sick or have some sort of problems they feel that you are making excuses...
what is the warning for? can he open his eyes and see that your preggies???nxa
hubby is good today but catching flu. we got the worst news every yesterday by my to be mother in law.
my hubby's younger sister only 25yrs of age doesn’t work nor has matric went to labour last night. gosh she has a 3 yr old lb already and only meet this guy less than a year. Help does anyone think that i am being too selfish in this. i told her last year that she need to go back to school and she told me that she wants to married to a rich man who will sort all her problems and stay away from home for she feels that driving fancy cars and living in suburbs is the way to life.
i said to her not every human is fortunate and God will never create us the same as a woman she should start building herself before considering getting married or looking for rich men

widget thank you very much for the information. I really needed someone like you to explain all that is done in theatre. I had an etopic pregnancy 2 yrs ago and it wasn’t really that bad of pain unit they removed the stitch. Shoo it was painful and thanks to my mum i managed to go through the pain easy. I was off work for 2 months and didn’t do anything hectic until my body gave me instructions to do so.
Hope it works the same this time around.

Spinal block- that is the think i am worried about. I have been reading more about it trying to get information on how it works and the outcomes of it. Will keep doing my research