Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

hellllllllllllooooooooo lovelies

Vix - ag no man that freakin sucks!!!!!!!!! why must bad shit always happen a lady at my daycare spoke to me last week saying her daughter in law is having a c-sec today - she felt bad one day and when she got to dr he detected she was 14 wks preggy and the baby has died then they tried to let it come down and it didnt work so c-sec was only option - WORST is she wasnt even awarre she was preggy as they never tried

Ika and sue have also mc. x

Oh Vix that is so sad! Send her our love!!

Simone, honestly they are both hard work but in different ways. Abi is A LOT more independent but she is also more demanding. Aidan is more of a ninny and throws hectic tantrums but he is a lot more loving. Abi listens better and Aidan ignores a lot. They both go through phases of sleeping well. Right now they are both sleeping well (touch wood that doesn't change) but some weeks Aidan acts up, others it's Abi. Abi is a nightmare when she's just woken up. Very picky, we can only hold her a certain way and we can't move once we have her lol otherwise she freaks out. BUt honestly, they both have their difficult times and both have their awesome times. I think that's how it is with boys and girls.

You know, I asked my dad the other day if he ever had a favourite and he said that we were all favourites at different times. He said he disliked us all in our teen years lol, he adored be between 2 and 7 because I was apparently a real character and very funny and he says he thinks I am the apple of his eye coz I'm his only daughter but there are phases when he's got a favourite. And it's so true. I can already see that now. But right now Aidan is my little darling because he's my little boy. And I can see C is like that with Abi. I want Abi to be independent and I love that she listens so well etc. Of course I also want Aidan to be independent but you know what I mean.

omg no vix. That is heartbreaking.

Julz and Nelria- Did you see that ClaireC had a MC? very very sad! she went for her 12w scan and the heart had stopped beating.

Julz unfortunately I CANNOT hide my fear of gecko's, my family refers to them as Lisha's friends and my niece has jumped on that bandwagon too lol ... Shrey will definitely pick up my fear of all the crawlies ....

Zee lol @ the ladies expression at Fruit & Veg, you must have been mortified hehehe maybe she is just a fiesty little girl In time I am sure she will calm down.

Re my darned assistant, we are being civilised to each other but only cos we MUST work together. It's taken a lot from me to be civil to that man ... Things with him and the other staff are not good though. He has made a huge effort to be nasty to the debtors & creditors staff so I don't think that speaks well for his character ... Some think he is after my job but as my bosses & I know he doesn't have the skill to perform it ...
I just wish I can get a new job soon so that I am away from all this negativity, I have worked so hard to try to push all negative thoughts re il's so I just need to maintain the positivity...

Jessica nice to see you here after so long. Wishing you well with the new venture.

Wow Jessica! Glad u found us! Hope u and Bryce are well;-)