Hi there girls
Sorry I've been mia for so long, but life has been a rollercoaster these last 3 months...
Work is so busy, I can barely get everything done during the day & the more I do, the more my boss pushes me to do...o well...I made this move so need to learn to cope with a target that keeps growing...really hope I'll find something closer to home next year, coz the traffic is taking every spare drop of energy out of me

at home it got so bad that we very nearly got divorced...going for counceling now, so things are starting to get better everyday....our marriage has never been this open...no more secrets & if something bothers either one of us we imediatly talk about it & make a effort to understand each other & talk things trough. For the first time in 10 years I can truelly say that I know my husband loves & wants to be with me 100%....it's really amazing what honest open communication can do!!!
Zian is growing by the day & even though his 10 hands full, his becoming so loving towards me & it really lifts my spirits when my boy walks up to me with a kiss & a hug, just because

his going to a new school in Paarl next year Jan, very excited to have him in a more structured & strict enviroment!!!
Chanel did so much better this term....so much that he even got merits...mommy is really proud!!! She's even got a change to be a prefect next year if she keep s at it (their school chooses new prefects every term) She started with af, so she's mommys teen now & although we have our tiffs every now & then, we're getting closer every day