file January 2010 mommies

16 years 1 week ago #105941 by Stilettomum
Aribeth wrote:

Holly krap girls!

I started jan 2010 moms on pf and 90% of you have made me feel like an outcast on my own flippin thread. This is an open forum, i quite like charlotte thanks! And if we were all decent ppl we would embrance the new moms, after all they are moms just like the rest of you.[/b] Elsa - ek het nie eers woorde nie. No one knows everything about motherhood, and neither do you. Quite franlky i have to say that those of us who have 2 or even 3 lo's have a little more exp in the parenting dept then the first time moms, not because we know better - just because we have done it before. So to shun and knock comments from moms about their experiences is just plain rude and sorry but it doesnt say much for you as a person.

Not so longago you gave me hell about my comments, saying i was abrupt and harsh - you just took the cake.

I am shocked and disgusted at the behavior i have seen here, this is not a closed forum for only moms who joined originally. Its called jan2010 moms, not elsa,jems,m2b,etc only.

I have so much i would like to say about certain moms here and what i think of the way you do things and the way you carry on about things.

90% of you ladies need to grow the f up and get over your petty small talk bullsh1t.

I am so done with this sh1t!

Thank you for ruining a perfectly good thread that i was once proud to be a part of. 90% of you ladies changed after you got back from leave, and not for the better!


Aribeth - thank you i like you to actually i like all the moms. do not jugde them on how they raise there his and on the advise they gave even if i dont agree. i might be a adolesent to some ppl, so yes im 24 years old and loving it. but ive been a parent for 4 years and i think my age and responsibility has nothing to do with each other.

This is my last comment on this thread... i prefer all moms because everyone is welcome there. so to Elsa, M2b, etc when you feel the need to talk to anyone or have question or need advise you will even after this still be welcome on the other Jan moms post.

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Lorelai Charlotte Nortje - 27 January 2010
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16 years 1 week ago #105920 by Mommy2be
Replied by Mommy2be on topic Re: January 2010 mommies
Thats me too then seeing that this has become a cirkus and I am not a clown!

Was nice knowing you all and its sad that we have to throw away our friendship just like that because of other people!

Have a nice life I guess and to all the critisizing bitches who came and distroyed our posts.... up yours!!!!!

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16 years 1 week ago #105903 by Elsa
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I actually have no comment.

I have gone back and deleted everything I have said for the last few days.

I am now going to log of from Moomie and not come back! Aribeth you can take your JAN 2010 Post and SHOVE IT!

I am also no longer available to those I use to chat to on Skype and I will also be deleting everyone off Facebook.

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16 years 1 week ago #105893 by Mommy2be
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Very uncalled for Aribeth! I actually considered you being a part of us and we did welcome you in our group, from PF to Moomies. There was only the one incident with you and me where Elsa intervened! If you are so "over it" then leave the post and go somewhere else! Your name calling is so uncalled for.

CORRECTION: started jan 2010 moms on pf and 90% of you have made me feel like an outcast on my own flippin thread.

THIS IS NOT YOUR FLIPPEN THREAD!

We have not changed, we are actually still the same people! We just dont appreciate people butting in from all sides telling us how to raise our kids and how to live our lives!

You were apart of our Jan 2010 mommies but insults like that will not go unnoticed and we dont need your 2cents every once a week.

Im not even going to stoop to your level with the insults. I can but Im really biting my tongue here... Ill leave that to Elsa when she loggs on!

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16 years 1 week ago #105875 by Aribeth
Replied by Aribeth on topic Re: January 2010 mommies
Holly krap girls!

I started jan 2010 moms on pf and 90% of you have made me feel like an outcast on my own flippin thread. This is an open forum, i quite like charlotte thanks! And if we were all decent ppl we would embrance the new moms, after all they are moms just like the rest of you. Elsa - ek het nie eers woorde nie. No one knows everything about motherhood, and neither do you. Quite franlky i have to say that those of us who have 2 or even 3 lo's have a little more exp in the parenting dept then the first time moms, not because we know better - just because we have done it before. So to shun and knock comments from moms about their experiences is just plain rude and sorry but it doesnt say much for you as a person.

Not so longago you gave me hell about my comments, saying i was abrupt and harsh - you just took the cake.

I am shocked and disgusted at the behavior i have seen here, this is not a closed forum for only moms who joined originally. Its called jan2010 moms, not elsa,jems,m2b,etc only.

I have so much i would like to say about certain moms here and what i think of the way you do things and the way you carry on about things.

90% of you ladies need to grow the f up and get over your petty small talk bullsh1t.

I am so done with this sh1t!

Thank you for ruining a perfectly good thread that i was once proud to be a part of. 90% of you ladies changed after you got back from leave, and not for the better!

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16 years 1 week ago #105872 by Christelle
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Good morning girls,

Had a much better night last night than the one before. Zani woke up at 12 and again at 6. I can live with that .

Her dad almost drowned her with blueberries last night. He was feeding her and she was bouncing in her chair and the spoon found her nose instead of her mouth just as she was breathing in. Shame poor baby was spluttering like crazy, nose was running and eyes were tearing up. Shame, dad felt soooo bad. That put her off her food for the night. When we were getting dressed after bath time, had to remove some left over blueberries from her nose with an earplug. Well, so you learn…..don’t jump in you chair during feeding time!

I just have to ask, what is up with the weather in Cape Town? One day it is summer and the next day it is raining? Hate it!! Want summer now!!

Elsa – LOL at Tyler doing donuts. Where does he get his driving skills? Mom or dad??

Lolli – forgot to ask you yesterday, but how is Tristan’s tummy now?

I have to say that I have been very disappointed with some of the comments made about Elsa on the other forum threads. Who are these people? Who do they think they are questioning the morals we will be instilling in our children? Do not come onto a forum and just read the last two pages and make judgements left right and centre. You don’t know us and you don’t know our situations. Sure, we can chat on FB or even Skype, but we prefer to do it here as well. You can call us bitchy and rude, but reading the comments on the other thread, all I can say is …. Hello pot, meet kettle! You are insulting to us on the public forums, but then send us a PM to apologise???? Why??? Why can’t you just apologise in the same public manner?? And if it is such an “bad” place, why are you reading our thread. There is another Jan 2010 thread where apparently “all” moms are welcome and where no disrespect is intended (just insinuated).

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16 years 1 week ago #105850 by Liv
Replied by Liv on topic Re: January 2010 mommies
Good morning moomies,

Hope all of you had a good night rest. Liam was ok. Doesn't sleep through the night yet though.

Lolli did T sleep through the night again? I voted for you guys.

Annalize I will send you the flyer today still. Keep on forgetting. Thanks for being willing tomarket me.

Nice lazy weather in CT today.

Enjoy your day ladies. Will popin later

Mom to Kay-Leigh born 23-02-02 & Liam born 05-12-09

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