January 2010 mommies

Sorrel why is it if someone does not comment on your post, they are not interested? Do you reply to each and every post on this thread? I have had numerous times when I have posted a message or photo and no one replies. It does not mean they are not interested in me or are ignoring me. Maybe they just have nothing to say??

I don’t care if you log on every day or once every week, I was just suggesting a reason for why people might not have so many things to say to you, but you seem to have taken this a bit personal.

It’s the same with Aribeth popping in and just posting “Hi”. How should I reply to that? So I’m sorry if you think I was ignoring you, I wasn’t.

Charlotte, I appreciate your advice that you have given me. Some of it was just done in a way that made me feel uncomfortable. There is just a way of putting it without indirectly saying your are stupid for worrying about things.

This is just so sad

Thats the type of group i would love to be apart of. i had to do everything with the first one myself, i didn't have moomie or even pampers to ask.

thats why i love sites like these.

OK, I know I'm butting in and it's none of my business, but I just want to say that I think this nastiness is quite uncalled for. This is an open forum right? Why not then rather make a group on FB that is private for you to speak on?

There are constantly new people joining our oct/nov 2008 moms and we don't mind at all. We ask them about their kids etc. and we have been chatting for 3 years now. New people are always welcome. It's another mommy to get advise from or for you to possibly help. I for one can't live without my group of mommies. When things are hectic I speak to them and they ALWAYS make me feel better. I love every single one of them like they're my sister because we all support one another. Maybe you guys should try the same?

Lolli I think the reason is that everybody is caught up in there own lives, that what you say is not important.

You ask them about there lives, but they never ask about yours. You tell them where to get things and they dont even say thank you. I guess like if you keep ignoring me eventually i'll give up trying.

And Christelle yes I dont come on often, but if I do come on, I will eventually read your repliesl. And the reason why is, because I probably felt like you guys are feeling now and that is i did not feel like it. because no one is really interested.

There was a time, when Juanita posted pics for me of Jordan and not one of you except Juanita and Lolli commented on them.

You know how that breaks a persons heart when you try and try and try and nothing. Wonder how you would feel if nobody comments on your post or pics of your precious angel?

We must really treat people how we would like to be treated. And if you dont like somebody, then just ignore them like most of you did with me on the Jan 2010 tread.

Been typing and re-typing my post now for the past couple of hours, and it is not about not being sure about where I stand, but not being able to put it into words.

I am saddened that I no longer get the warm and fuzzies when I think about logging in...it is just not the same anymore.

Sjoe! And I only wanted to share some pics of Christiaan's christening yesterday and to say hi to my fellow Jan 2010 moomie mommies.

Really not a nice place to hang around any more. Will just share a few pics with a few friends via e-mail.

Have a nice afternoon everyone.