January 2010 mommies

I need to say something as I did not defend Elsa which was wrong of me. I may not have agreed with 100% with what Elsa said here and on the BLW thread but Elsa is my friend and I do stand by her.

I was hoping that I could pull an ostrich and ignore the issue somewhat but that is not right.

Elsa - I am sorry I was not there for you and I hope you carrying on chatting with us, you are a fabulous person and I love chatting to you.

I sincerely apologise.

yoh yoh yoh!!!

Had such a good read now! Now for my 2c (ook maar goed ek het nie ingelog nie)

This is a public forum yes! BUT like most of the golden oldies members said... we have been together since our babies were like 6 weeks in our tummies. We went through everything together, the morning sickness, the moods, the fights, the uncomfortable stages, the births, the maternity leave, the first few months and here we are now that our babies are turning into little toddlers.
Yes we are very close and we do share alot - maybe sometimes overshare lol (specially me) i have probably been mouning for the last year and half now about my dumbass BF who doesnt want to ask me to marry him.... you ladies kept me calm until eventually he did ask me! There has just been so much that we have done together. We are a family!

But unfortunately I also dont feel so "comfortable" anymore just telling all my life drama om Moomie anymore. And believe u me...my life is quite exciting in the drama department. Especially now, Its worse because of the other people from the other groups reading our chats now after this whole drama. I have nothing against the ladies that have joined but just remember that it wont be easy to just walk in and be everyones best friend. Trust and respect are 2 things you have to earn, we all know each other. We know the history and the husbands and the kids and the MIL"s. i think the main problem is that we dont feel so comfortable anymore coming on here and being able to vent. Like Elsa said...not so long ago Aribeth also went through the same thing because she was a bit judgemental and just popped in now and again to leave her advice. We did kak her out but now its is fine (i think)!

I also dont feel like I want to come chat anymore because of who might be reading! is sad because I use to rush to work to come post and skinner now its all just reached a low...

Hi Ladies,

Just popping in quick to say hello! If I don't respond to each and everyone's post, please don't take it personally!!

Liv - glad to see you are back. Have not decided on a theme for Zani's b-day. Don't think I'm going to have a big party for her, maybe just a cake or so. Will rather have a big do when she is a bit older.

Having such a crappy day - my AF finally decided to show up this morning. First on in 15 months, and I am in some serious pain!

Anyhoo, will pop in again a bit later to see how everyone is doing.

Keep well

Jems was thinking about you & Jade the other day. Think it was the makro adverts that had all the dora things for the bedroom etc. If she does change her mind ill do the invites lol.

Have any of you decided on bday party themes? We just having a lunch since liams bday is on a sunday. Ill stil have a cake for him with some decorations etc. Havnt decided on a theme though.

Jade is driving me nuts at the mo as she is into Dora the Explorer and we don't have a PVR or any of her DVD's and she doesn't understand that she can't watch it whenever she wants. And we have only hired the ONE Dora dvd about 50 times. So finally going to order for her.

If she changes her mind and wants a Dora party I am going to freak. Her cake topper arrived yesterday! It is exactly like the pic of the cake I am doing! Yay!

Lolli you must be missing me : -) good luck for today. I'm sure you'll pull it off just great. I love those walkermates. Very cute & comfortable.

Nerina no one said our group was closed to new comers. Esa is being misinterpreted.

Jems also saw those tops. Haven't tried it though. Let me kno if it does work lol