Pregnancy after D&C

Morning everybody!

Lucy BD your heart out friend - really rooting for you its going to happen!!!

Girly sorry friend about the job front. I know exactly what you are going through, we have had another 6 resignations this week and the place is falling apart been here 5 years and loved it but the last 7 months have been some of the most stressful ever. God has a plan and we won't understand until it happens but it will be for the best!!! Hang in there.

Chan - Big hug friend! Like Lucy says just keep thinking of that heart beat you saw.

AFM:
OK little bit of old blood late last night again when I got home from girls night out and now nothing except AF like pains but no fricking AF. Not sure what to think but staying positive.

Went to see the Backup Plan - BRILLIANT - laughed myself silly. it will scare the crap out of anybody thinking of having kids.

On the job front still waiting for my offer - Arrgg the suspense is killing me!!

Kitty is back to swearing at me for food every morning and bitching and moaning so he is definitely feeling like a healthy siamese again.

Oh Chan, thinking of you hun but try not to stress, i really think it is caused from the internal.

Girly - good luck for today, i hope you get some answers, preferably good ones.

Lucy - so when do you start the race again?

Morning...

Not really in the mood for chatting today so just wanted to let you know that the red blood is gone and it's just lots of brown stuff coming out now. Didn't sleep well last night because of stressing and i'm at work now trying to catch up from yesterday.

Will catch up with everyone later

Girly !!Definately NOT TMI, I am open to anything at the moment Achieving O is usually not too difficult for me but when you are "doing it" all the time and tired etc etc it does go by the way side. Will def make that a mission this month. I am not so hot on morning BD either but like I said ..... anything goes at the moment! Going to get pre-seed too!

I am very glad you are getting advise from a legal source. It helps to put your mind at ease ( a bit) With 8 years service it will be pretty expensive to retrench you, never mind the issues that they may run into with you being preggy. I hope that you are able to keep going until your mat leave and then as you say 4 months to calmly and unpressuredly find a new job!! Good luck my friend and I will think of you this afternoon.

Chan - How are you today?

Sue - Heard anything?

Chan I hope the spotting has stopped / gotten lighter. I am sure its from the internal, since you had no issues before now.
Keep the faith - and I hope you're taking today off as bed rest anyways!
I'm still staying positive for you!

SueD wanted to comment yesterday but cant at work anymore - sounds like implantation spotting to me!!! Only 4 more days till you know

Lucy you make me laugh 36hrs sounds good to me, if your schedules allow. Morning BD never worked for us except for weekends.
I can recommend one thing which may be TMI! Get yourself a toy - even one of those small ones that "play" sell in clicks / pick 'n pay by the condoms for R80. Foreplay - and orgasm. And then BD - every time you do. TRUST ME!!!
They say when a women orgasms the cervix is relaxed and therefore easier for the sperm to get up there. Also the stimulation helps your CM big time

Okay wow I'm sorry for my TMI but suddenly very passionate about you ladies conceiving!

Also wondering about Sal... and Isa too!
I will check in with Leilag today - she is due soon too.

AFM meeting with our family lawyer friend to discuss what my rights would be if they had to let me go now, 2 months before maternity leave is due. I am not that worried about next year, because once I know whats happening I have 4 months to find a job, and I'm praying really hard that the right job will come my way. But I am stressed about the next 6 monhths. I just want to relax with my new family without stress. The last 3 years have been hugely stressful and its taking its toll.
Lucy I've been there 8 years now! Started doing books to T/B level, then assisted with the sales, and eventually did that full time. Dont really enjoy the pressures it brings, esp since I'm on my own in Cpt means its all on me, rather than teamwork.
Nothing is clear yet, but my boss will call me this afternoon to discuss further. Today's gonna be a big day! Trying not to stress but not easy.

Chan - It's from the scan, keep that image of the heart beat in your head!! I'll be praying for you!

Klk - hottie bottle!

Sue - forgot to mention earlier that I think it is a big possibility I mean what else!! Good luck on the job front.

Me - I am plotting my next BD marathon (already) not sure whether to do the 36hr thing or just every day. Such a fine balance between having it there at the right time and place and sperm quality. Mmmmm any suggestions?

Chan i bled after my internal too. Im being very positive, this little bean is here to stay!

Thanks Girly for the updates, please tell Angi she is in my prayer and thoughts.

Sal, where are you? I emailed you today but i think you may have left for home already.

Shazz, how are you and little Claire doing? Cant wait to hear your birth story and of course to see pictures of your little beauty!

I am in agony tonight...im ovulating!! Best keep DH far away from me