file Pregnancy after D&C

16 years 5 months ago #13951 by GirlyBlocked
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Morning mommies to be!

Klk happy birthday to Connor!

Esmari so sorry for what you're going through. People forget that this loss is as bad as any other loss you could go through, and you have to go through the mourning process.
Your husband is probably dealing with it as best as he can, and his will be different as he's not going through the physical loss.
You've come to the right place, and I hope that you'll find peace soon.
And as the other girls said, before you know it you'll be counting the days till ovulation and ttc again.

Chan so sorry about how you're feeling. I think I went through the EXACT same thing! Every time I felt negative I went for bloods, and even when I'd convinced myself it was all over, the count came back climbing and strong. So hang in there hun.
And be sure to let us know the SECOND you get those results!
As for symptoms - quite honestly I still dont feel pregnant some days! Excluding the growing belly, and the occasional movements (we have a shy / lazy girl!) there's nothing else that ever gave me reason to feel pregnant especially in the first trimester!
My MS only hit at 10weeks, and only lasted till 12 weeks. And the fatigue arrived around 14 weeks, and only ended around 20 weeks and even somedays now I'm just exhausted.

Sal woweee only 4 weeks to go! And that's if your boy decides to stay put that long!
And that means its just around the corner for Isa, Leilag, Shazz & Jelly too!
Sal Are you on maternity leave yet? Have you got everything ready?

Lucy good luck with the flights today and the busy week!
PS what did your temps do today hmmm?

Sue & Angi where you girls?
Claire hows your pregnancy treating you?

First angel resting 25/06/2009
2nd angel Kaylee born 13/08/2010 2.83kg 47cm 33.5cm
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16 years 5 months ago #13914 by Sal
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY CONNOR!!!
KLK, I cant believe its been a year. Have a lovely day celebrating with your special boy.

Chan, stop being so paranoid girl. Everything will be fine, I have a good feeling for you. Keep us posted on the results <hugs>

Jelly, 35.5weeks today, cant believe I'll meet my LO in 4 weeks (hopefully he/she will be on time). I'm very scared of the birth but getting to the point that this LO must come out now, I'm getting really uncomfortable now.

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16 years 5 months ago #13912 by Esmari
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You guys. Today has been bad so far. I am still in my pjs in bed. And I feel guilty, cause I have got 2 toddlers to look after. I have been crying all morning!
I am so confused. I still had not taken the cytotec. I just cant. Its been 4 days since the doc told me there is no baby. And I just cant understand it. From the moment I found out I was pregnant I prayed for this pregnancy. And I believed. With all my heart. He asks us to pray and believe. And what did I get for that? My husband does not understand how I feel. He says that he thinks that I know its over, but dont want to hear it. (dat ek myself moet oortuig). And maby thats it. But he goes to work and can forget about everything. Its me going about my day still 'pregnant'.
I have not started bleeding yet. The pain was so bad last night, I had to put a warm bottle on my tummy. My cervix feels low, soft and as if there is a small opening. And still got pain. The only time I have blood, is if I had a bowel movement and there was downward pressure. I guess I just dont know.

Oh chan. You should not go through that at all. Fx on the tests! Believe that all will be ok!

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16 years 5 months ago #13911 by Esmari
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You guys. Today has been bad so far. I am still in my pjs in bed. And I feel guilty, cause I have got 2 toddlers to look after. I have been crying all morning!
I am so confused. I still had not taken the cytotec. I just cant. Its been 4 days since the doc told me there is no baby. And I just cant understand it. From the moment I found out I was pregnant I prayed for this pregnancy. And I believed. With all my heart. He asks us to pray and believe. And what did I get for that? My husband does not understand how I feel. He says that he thinks that I know its over, but dont want to hear it. (dat ek myself moet oortuig). And maby thats it. But he goes to work and can forget about everything. Its me going about my day still 'pregnant'.
I have not started bleeding yet. The pain was so bad last night, I had to put a warm bottle on my tummy. My cervix feels low, soft and as if there is a small opening. And still got pain. The only time I have blood, is if I had a bowel movement and there was downward pressure. I guess I just dont know.

Oh chan. You should not go through that at all. Fx on the tests! Believe that all will be ok!

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16 years 5 months ago #13909 by Esmari
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You guys. Today has been bad so far. I am still in my pjs in bed. And I feel guilty, cause I have got 2 toddlers to look after. I have been crying all morning!
I am so confused. I still had not taken the cytotec. I just cant. Its been 4 days since the doc told me there is no baby. And I just cant understand it. From the moment I found out I was pregnant I prayed for this pregnancy. And I believed. With all my heart. He asks us to pray and believe. And what did I get for that? My husband does not understand how I feel. He says that he thinks that I know its over, but dont want to hear it. (dat ek myself moet oortuig). And maby thats it. But he goes to work and can forget about everything. Its me going about my day still 'pregnant'.
I have not started bleeding yet. The pain was so bad last night, I had to put a warm bottle on my tummy. My cervix feels low, soft and as if there is a small opening. And still got pain. The only time I have blood, is if I had a bowel movement and there was downward pressure. I guess I just dont know.

Oh chan. You should not go through that at all. Fx on the tests! Believe that all will be ok!

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16 years 5 months ago #13908 by Esmari
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You guys. Today has been bad so far. I am still in my pjs in bed. And I feel guilty, cause I have got 2 toddlers to look after. I have been crying all morning!
I am so confused. I still had not taken the cytotec. I just cant. Its been 4 days since the doc told me there is no baby. And I just cant understand it. From the moment I found out I was pregnant I prayed for this pregnancy. And I believed. With all my heart. He asks us to pray and believe. And what did I get for that? My husband does not understand how I feel. He says that he thinks that I know its over, but dont want to hear it. (dat ek myself moet oortuig). And maby thats it. But he goes to work and can forget about everything. Its me going about my day still 'pregnant'.
I have not started bleeding yet. The pain was so bad last night, I had to put a warm bottle on my tummy. My cervix feels low, soft and as if there is a small opening. And still got pain. The only time I have blood, is if I had a bowel movement and there was downward pressure. I guess I just dont know.

Oh chan. You should not go through that at all. Fx on the tests! Believe that all will be ok!

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16 years 5 months ago #13821 by Jellybaby
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Chan Please post as soon as you get the results - I am going to be sitting here refreshing the site till I see your post.

Lucy, I am also starting to get excited but also scared at the same time. I am so worried that I won't be ready.

Ladies, I got such a bargin the other day. I have been looking for a compactum / set of drawers that I can use in Hayley's room for her clothes etc etc but even just plain drawers are very expensive (I want a wooden one). Well needless to say I found an ad for one but it was only R300 so was really concerned as to what condition it was in. IT IS IN EXCELLENT CONDITION. Here is what it looks like (just a pic off the internet)My one is just white :)

johannesburg.gumtree.co.za/c-Stuff-for-S...e-W0QQAdIdZ202169849

One on the way
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