Pregnancy after D&C

Esmari here's sending you a very big bear hug...im so sorry for the pain you are going through. My prayers are with you...

Ah Esmari I wish there was something I could do or say to make you feel better. I'm sorry that you're in so much pain. That's why both of my miscarriages my gynae opted for a D&C and I'm so grateful that he did. I just find for me that it's easier to deal with than waiting for something to come out.

The only advice I can give you is to chat to us as often as you need to and I know how hard it is but try and focus on the future. I also had 2 losses in 5 months but I found the 2nd one was easier to deal with than the first because there was no baby 2nd time around. But we are all different and you wanted this so badly so I know how you must feel.

My pregnancy is fine for now Esmari. I hope! I'm absolutely paranoid about everything since my last 2 mc's. I think i'll feel better after seeing something on the scan next week. I think you know how I feel about that!

Oh Chan, not doin good at all. Finally got myself to use the cytotec yesterday afternoon. Just had to use my head and do it. Cried all the way putting in the tabs. I am in terrible pain. The voltarens not doing its job, I dont have a car today, and the only other pain meds I have is panado!

Why do I feel like I am aborting my child if there was no baby? I know this. Think my heart wanted to hold on to the idea of being pregnant. (I believed that because I fell pregnant so easy after mc, that it was meant to be) Maby this is so difficult because its my 2nd loss this year. I just feel so left down. So empty. And everyone seems to think I should not be feeling like this. Like having 2 healthy children already should make it easier. Maby it should, I dont know.

Anyway. Claire, how you doing? Have you heard from your gyni yet.

Hows your pregnancy going chan?

Oh that's awesome Angi!!

DH will be glad to hear that...
Luckily he is on the right shift this week Mmmm....

Get BDing Angi!!

ChanM its cd13 today...sorry for the TMI but CM is like a tap that has been left to drip...