Looking for Gyne, northen suburbs CT

It must be a huge weight off your mind - I am glad you have that sorted, and can now enjoy the weekend with one less stress. Yay!

Glad its all sorted now

Ashbabe I am so pleased you chatted to her and have resovled your trust in her. xxx

all faith is restored in my gyne ladies

Had a great conversation with her yesterday and she really did answer and we were on a level that was just amazing

Happy to say that LB is doing great 1.1kg's and we will be having natural again (if all goes to plan)

Thanks so much for all your comments and thoughts i really do appreciate all the advise

Thanks ladies, i feel better now knowing that its all ok to ask all these questions, so her i get my pen and paper.

will let u all know on friday how it went, i am so nervous in asking all these things but i like teh idea if i get nervous just handing her the paper

Thanks again

You must definitely talk to her about the type of birth you want. Some gynaes are pro-caesar and will automatically try and get you to have a caesar even if there is not medical reason why you need one. Other gynae's are pro-natural and prefer to wait and see if you can go natural and only do caesars for emergencies. Still other gynae's go with whatever you want.

You must definitely speak to her about your options and get a clear picture of exactly how she foresee's the birth and decide if that is in fact how you were hoping to go. You must also definitely tell her what type of birth you are hoping for and be assured that she will support you in that.

Oh my goodness yes!!!
Ask, ask, and ask again!
If you don't want an epidural, say so. If you only want pain relief offered when you ask for it - say so.
You really should be trying to put together a birth plan.
Remember, she is still human and should have your best intentions at heart!
Write a list of questions and concerns down now, take it with you, if you are too shy to ask, give her the list!
This is a huge event in your life, you need to take control of the way you want it to be.