Feb-May 2011 Mommies

Meags, I can understand that your friend is upset, but imagine you didn't know the person who posted that? Are you upset cause you know her, and you think she shouldn't throw stones at glass houses?
Its really not her fault, you know how often a person comments on "hows the baby doing" on a womens FB who has just lost her baby. They really dont meant to upset, but don't know the facts. Once pointed out to them, gently of course, then they feel right rotten!

I agree with jess, you need to remove yourself from some of these situations. You end up upsetting yourself alot and that is not good for the baby.

ai meags!

I hate to tell you this but you really need to relax where it comes to all your friends & their drama's. Their soapie-like lives is clearly getting you tense & it's seriously not what you need right now. At this point in your life YOU need to put yourself & your needs first. People will always do stupid things for the wrong reasons & say hurtfull things (whether on purpose or unintentionally) at the wrong times. But YOU need to back off & let them make their own mistakes. If unstable friend said something hurtful to the other friend then all you can do is say to hurt friend how sorry you are for her loss etc etc and NOT get all involved & tense.

RELAX!!! Take it easy as your emotional state affects your LO and its not good for you to get so wound up.

oh I just have to vent...

this friend I have...the one who shouldnt be getting married. she is emotionally unstable and doesnt have a lot of friends and unfortunately failed the nursing degree in 1st year. I am one of the only people who still talk to her.

Anyway. she adds everyone on facebook but they havent spoken in 6 years. BUT whenever someone is pregnant or has a baby, she decides to get involved.

so anyway. my friend who's brother passed away - she is really depressed and not coping and especially sad that her brother never got to meet the baby.

so what does this emotionally unstable friend do??? makes a comment on sad friend's status (her status was about her brother's memorial service).
I felt it inappropriate to make personal comments - she should have just given her condolences. anyway. she said something like
"sorry about your loss. hope your baby is bringing you some joy. hope your brother was at least able to meet his little nephew"

well - I couldnt believe such a personal note when she doesnt know this girl from a bar of soap really. sad friend cried sooo much after reading it as she cant accept that her brother will never get to meet her baby.

sorry...such a weird thing to get annoyed about. But just think it was a bit insensitive in a way and now my sad friend is so upset about the comment!

Hi ladies

sorry no personals. been so busy today and need to go out again now. working 7am-7pm tomorrow and thursday so you may not hear from me until friday.
will try keep updated via my phone though.

Tazzy and Karen enjoy your scans and update us ASAP!!

Helloooo ladies!!!!!

Sho - I can't remember a thing of what I read!Hope all is well with all the fairies!!!

Here it is going great - just tightening the reigns on the people at work - I was in Pta over the weekend as we had a management conference at one of the game farm/guest lodges there, so there are a whole lot of rules and regulations etc that I must now inforce which the previous manageress never did.
Was a hell of a lot of fun though!!

So I am now still recovering or trying to, from the lack of sleep!

Baba is also doing great and growing bigger by the day - had to go get my yummy mummy over the weekend too so I can wear my pants a little longer without them falling to my knees due to the zips and buttons not being fastened!

I'll pop in soon again and try to do personals - but for now I'm just gonna send you all a great big preggy-hug so you can have a blessed day!!!!

Afternoon preggy fairies

Tazzy and Karen, you must be so excited! Can't wait to hear how it goes!

Lucy, is he back on his meds? Maybe just give them some time to kick back in?

Tazzy, I agree with you on that, while we are TTC we are all over them, then suddenly it stops - if it were me I would feel very used. Thats why I make an effort for DH.

Rakker, holding thumbs your MS goes away soon! Mine also seems to be all gone now - from around 9/10 weeks. But I also read that its the build up of hormones while you sleep - which is why it tends to be worse in the morning. I did find whenever I slept for very long I had MS. Strange seeing we are so much more tired...

I did some Pep shopping today and got Em a whole bunch of new clothing, and some baby grows and a baby bag. They are so perfect to buy from for children. I also got myself a plus sized top from them, but it was very pretty, so will come in handy

My mom just found this great rental/buy baby store near her wor, so we are going to go there together soon to check things out

Hello to all the mommies

I'm back from holiday. It was so nice. I am enjoy it so much. We have very nice weather. I'll try to catch up at work now, hehe but it will prob take me a day or 2.

Tomorrow I'll going to the gyne for my scan. Can't wait to see our baby again.

And it will take me a while to catch up on moomie.

Hope you all have an wonderfull day.