Morning ladies,
Chanti - glad for you that the op is over, so sorry that it wasn't all just good news but now you have solid feedback on what's up and can have a plan (like you said trying more first and then later if need be look at ivf). Think knowing whats up will give you some ease (as opposed to wondering) and that might just end up being what brings on your bfp
Jooste - so sorry to read about your mc. I don't comment often but do pop in and read a little bit of everything all over the forum so I've read previous posts of yours - thinking of you! And praying you get your next bfp quickly and that its a healthy pregnancy!
Afm - our first month trying was November - I only used 5 opk's and on the last one, got a dark result - because we were in and out of town (not together so not too much time together) BD'd around 3 times around the dark result which was all the time we had. But sadly AF came to greet me this morning. Didn't really expect to get a bfp in the first cycle already and I know I didn't track everything that good.
One thing I have realised, that most of you would already know - is for quite some months before we started trying - I would stress about the most random things, using them as an excuse about why we couldn't start yet. Then when you finally do start and and AF shows up - you realise how stupid it was to wait because of so many pathetic reasons - getting pregnancy overnight only happens to the majority of people who doesn't want or shouldn't have kids. So definitely going to enjoy trying again for however many cycles it takes - without worrying about a single stupid thing
Enjoy your weekend!