Trying for a 2017 Baby

Morning ladies

I woke up this morning all ready to test, went into the bathroom, took out a test, hubby was all excited, and my gut just told me to wipe before i test n i listened....so its some light spotting which i think is going to lead to full on period....DH waited for me to come out all excited but when he saw my face when i walked out just hugged me and told me next time, he just left and i am locked in my room crying....

The pic that liza uploaded, when people tell me that it drives me insane...but days like this make me wonder if this is not part of gods plan for me....if my angel baby was my only baby....is this my life onwards? Some people who do not deserve it get pregnant so easy, look at how many women abandon there children yet we struggle so hard to fall pregnant! Life can be so unfair

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@Sammy - Guess that is true everyone is different, Glad you have met someone that also accepts your son as his own.

Will keep you updated after appointment.
Thanks for your advise

Hi all

@Pixie - To answer your question, is tough! I have a 13 year old son. He was a COMPLETE surprise as I was only 18 years old when I had him.... Needless to say, his father and I never stayed together. I am now married to the most incredible man! He has accepted my son as his own... In fact if I refer to him as "my son" my DH gets rather annoyed because he is OUR son Now my ex has married someone else and together they have 3 of their own (He wrote my son off )... anyway, my point is, my ex and I just didn't match and while we were still together I swore I would never have another child.... and now look at me? I met the man of my dreams and all the both of us want is just one, together.... When I went through everything last year, my DH was by my side every step of the way. To the point where I became irritable because I was quite capable of driving myself to and from chemo each week..... What I have learnt through all of this though is that men DO feel the pain and hurt of our loses. Their hearts also break... They just have very very different ways of showing with it and dealing with it all. I know I deal "visibly", meaning I UGLY CRY! I shout and scream etc. Whereas my hubby will withdraw within himself and then go have a few beers with his dad, or take it out in the gym, or go walk the golf course alone. We all different I suppose

Regarding the gynae questions, I am not as clued up as all the other ladies, so I am not too sure what to ask! But here is what I know are my issues
* PCOS
* Unexplained Infertility (Well we know NOW why I am selectively infertile HAHAHA)
* DH had low morphology - But the pills he is on has his numbers skyrocketing
* Have your hormone levels all checked

Best of luck with your appointment! Please keep me updated at to what the outcome is

AFM... CD 9.... Just chilling... visualising my follies GROWING at record speed! So over injecting myself at night with the Fostimon.... Can't wait for my CD11 scan to finally know if everything is better this cycle

Hope everyone else is doing well and just taking things as they come!
Just always remember (Hope I don't offend anyone, but that's not my intension...) .... Let Go & Let God

Joo~ste
Yes it is very hard, i also feel that i waisted a part of my life from just hoping that my ex would change is mind, he never did. I am now with someone that wants kids or just one. Sometimes it just feels that he doesn't understand.

Do you ladies also feel like that or do men actually understand?

Any advise on questions i should ask the gynea?

Pixie
It is hard when all we see is others' babies and children. We should just keep on believing that we will be blessed. Just a matter of time.

Liza
It would be so awesome if you guys have a natural BFP while waiting it out to the FET. It is possible....you know!!

AFM
CD19......oh....the waiting....

Hi Ladies,
Sorry that i don't post on this forum everyday, I do read all you guys post,
@Ayesha - Hope AF stays away that you get your BFP,
Liza so sorry about your BFN
@Chanti good luck for your wait and that you get your BFP FX on that one.

To all the other ladies strongs for every single one of you's.

AFM: I dont normally post due to me not really going through the hectic stuff as all you ladies are going through and have gone through, you guys are exceptionally strong. I do not know what i would do if i have to have MC.
I am 31 and on the TTC wagon this journey is very emotional and depressing the hardest is when AF decides to show, which normally gets me extremely down, reading all you ladies post is what keeps my faith and hope. I moved my Gynea appointment to the 25th November in seeing AF showed before the 18th wanted to be safe. I have completely lost track of my Ovulation because of the 2 months changed calendar. Hopefully when i go im Ovulating.
I am also an Aunt of 4, my 3 siblings all have kids its difficult being around them, then being asked when you having a baby blah blah blah,

Ladies what is the questions that i should ask the Dr in order for him to check everything, the one thing on my List is to check for Endo, PCOS, question is can he also check if my Fallopian tubes are open? i suspect they are cause I ovulate but does that make a difference?
I feel asking this considering my age .

BABY dust to all the ladies on the TWW and the TTC period.

Today is CD5 for me last day of AF,