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8 years 6 months ago #279722 by NicolaF
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Morning ladies

Hope you all had a wonderful Easter :)

Thank you @trenge @Cands for your messages xxxx

@HOPE I am so so sorry about AF hun....feeling your pain :( It really does never get any easier. You will be blessed I promise. Keep fighting and keep strong xxx
@Mesh same goes for you....so sorry :( fingers crossed for your next cycle xxxx
@Ayesha gosh that is a long time to spot. Would it be worth going to see a fertility specialist maybe? Do you know when you will ovulate yet this month? xxx
@Trenge prayers to you for a BFP cycle!! Sounds positive so go for it!!! Great that he has some new found energy too!! If you don't mind me asking what is ED that your husband suffers from? xxx
@Mama K i hope you had a wonderful time in Mafikeng with your family sending lots of love xxxx

So ladies Im guessing i'm on CD4 if all this heavy bleeding is AF. Lots of clots and tissue on sunday, ended up cancelling the Easter braai we had planned at friends and hibernated, feel sad I didn't see any friends over the whole weekend but I just couldn't face anyone. Hubby and I went to beautiful place West coast national park on sunday for some time out by the sea. Feeling so sad, even though I knew it may not work first time the heartbreak is still there and still so heavy. In fact i'm sure its getting worse every cycle. And a whole week early too...that has never happened in my cycle at all. I still have to go for blood test tomorrow but is it even worth it?? I'm going to ask them to ring my husband with the results, I don't need another negative phonecall!!

We have decided to stop everything now, no fertomid, no opk, no timing. Just stop and take a break for a few months. We have decided also to make an appointment at the private adoption agency just to see what the process is for adopting a newborn. Fact is we want a family desperately and if we cant make one ourselves our last option (besides donor egg but still not 100% guarantee) is to help a child in need and give him/her a wonderful loving home. I've also decided to study business management to give our business a bit of a push, it is doing so well but could do with some more professional assistance so here I go...last time I studied was in 2000 at Damelin hahah!!

Anyway ladies thank you all for being there. We will get through this together! Praying April brings some BFP's so we can all celebrate!
Lots of love and babydust
xxxx

TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx

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8 years 6 months ago #279720 by Cands0490
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Hey hun ah I'm so sorry. This happened to me after my IUI that didn't work. Also came early and started brown. I'm really sorry

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April 2017: Started at Sandton Mediclinic
October 2017: Moved to Vitalab
Break from November 2017 - February 2018 - Put onto the pill

14 February 2018 - Started IVF.
17 May 2018 - Transferred two embryos back. Ended in Chemical pregnancy
6 June 2018 - Started prep for FET. Praying it is our turn!
27 June 2018 - FET #2
11 July 2018 - BFP TWINS on the way!
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8 years 6 months ago #279718 by trenge
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Hi ladies.
@NicolaF oh my dear. I hope it's nothing bad. It doesnt sound good at all. Ur making me very nervous. When I read ur previous post I thought yippee it look like implantation but now I see this and feel bad. Please keep posted. Ill pray for u.

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #279717 by NicolaF
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Well I don't know what to think but woke up this morning to a full heavy red flow ? I called the sister on call at my clinic and she said it's too early for AF but the pain and the flow is exactly like a proper period. Arghhhhhhh I am so over all of this


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TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #279715 by NicolaF
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Ladies I'm freaking out a bit. Have had some dark brown spotting which I never normally get this early in my cycle (cd23). Could it be implantation?? Or early AF? I'm only due Friday next week if my cycle stays at 30 days. Flip I'm worried now!! Sorry if pic is tmi

Could the hormones make AF come early? Have had on and off pain every day since the IUI and today I had some sharp pains and now the pain is the same both sides as if AF is about to arrive :( help me hahha!!!!


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TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx
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8 years 6 months ago #279714 by mesh1401
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Hi Ladies

Sorry I have been MIA but work has been quite hectic. I'v managed to read few of the last posts.

Maritz - welcome. trust me, you will enjoy chatting in this forum.

Nicola - 2WW - sooooo exciting. fingers crossed for you. when do you test?

Hope- sorry about AF. it really is disappointing when you feel positive about a cycle then AF comes and ruins it.

Ayesha - i've never had a long period. mine is usually 3-4 days. good luck with family around. i have my hubby's family down from Gauteng and they quite a handful :-) I also get the baby questions that annoy me

Sorry, if I have missed anyone out.....

AFM - AF arrived today - exactly on CD28, like every month.

Enjoy the long week-end and be safe.

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8 years 6 months ago #279713 by ayesha07
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@mamak have an awesome long weekend hun

@maritz welcome, hope your stay with us is a short and happy one. Are you taking any pre natal vitamins and folic acid? Those are good to start when ttc

AFM

My weekend looks like a bust have family around and I'm really not in the mood for any more baby questions.

I have a really long period this cycle..I am cd13 and still spotting. And I mean it's consistent from my period no stopping and starting. My gynea says to wait it out till my next cycle as my pap smear came back clear. Has any other ladies had a cycle like This?

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Preterm delivery 20/04/15
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