Time to begin TTC 2018!

Thank you all so much!!! Gosh you're all so amazing so glad to have you all

@ayesha totally agree!!! Very lucky to have you alll! It's sad how some women get a kick out of breaking other women down it's terrible. Learning slowly how to let go of those who impact negatively on my life! Lots of love to you xxxx

@hope that sounds amazing!! Please keep us posted when will you test? Xxx

@Tippeetwo happy anniversary for the 30th and have an amazing time away let's hope you get your bfp ❤❤❤

@cands how are you doing? Xxx

Arghhhh this 2ww is flipping ridiculous!! I can't concentrate! 4dpiui today and counting down till Easter weekend! Desperate for a holiday just can't afford it right now but I have durban to look forward to in a few weeks!

Have a great Tuesday everyone ??


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@Nicola I just read your message about friends and growing apart. It's amazing how life becomes, where the people you ok ne could trust with your life just faze out and it hurts especially when you trying so hard to keep the friendship going. I know it's not the same and we allk might not know each other personally, but I have come to view the people in this forum as friends. You guys know my biggest fears, my biggest heartbreak and you listen and understand. I haven't had a best friend for a very long time but I'm grateful to have a place like this, where women who don't know you from a bar of soap are willing to build you Up. It's sad to say but the women in my life aroiund my age find you in my struggles and try to break me down. I can only imagine how it must hurt with the way your friend is carrying on, but know, you will always have people here who care for you no matter what.

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Hi ladies.

@Trenge, hubby must be on board or he would straight up NOT be bothered at all. Our men sometimes need a nudge. It is sometimes too "simple" to them. They figure "what's the fuss". I agree it could also be a jab at his manhood. I am FAR from being a damsel but still ask my Mr to open jars and stuff. He lights up like if he wasn't around my life would come to a halt. They need to be needed;)

NICOLA.....WOOO HOOO. Been waiting on ur post. 12 sleeps yay! Praying hard for u xxx

@Ayesha wow that's great news for grandfather. Sending prayers for health and happiness!

@Tippee...ive heard of that powder. My Dr just suggests Staminogro. Which is technically just a multivitamin??? Any advice?

@Candz...u holding in there hun?

So, Easter already. Will be with family in my home town. Got a beautiful b&b booked overlooking the jewels of the Midlands. Should know by then if im preggers or not. If not i can party! If i am ill party....just sober LOL. I really hope this cycle is it. Im terrified to get my hopes too high. Theres positivity then there is plain wishful thinking. That feels too foolish. Sounds odd i know. Started getting a bit of acid reflux. Trying to think what i ate or drank that may cause it. Trying to rule out the obvious before i merrily symptom spot. Haven't quizzed Dr Google much this cycle. Almost miss getting wrapped up in all the TTC success stories. Hope one of us gets to tell OUR success story soon.
Will update if and when i poas.
In case im not online until after...

Happy week and Happy Easter to u all. Xxx

Hi ladies

@Nicola take it easy..I'm sure the Easter bunny will arrive with an even bigger surprise. Those sets are 400. My mil is selling them and I bought two lol really great quality

@tippy my grandad is ok just p rating they can discharge him in the nest of health

@trenge be positive...the greatest advise I got on my wedding day was your 1st child will always be your husband, didn't realise how true that was. And I understand the make up thing. I'm the same with make up and shoes but being in the house I hardly use it

@cands how you doing hun?



AFM

I'm waiting on my blood test results and my period so weird this month. Gonna see if my next cycle is the same then back to the gynea for more tests. Dh is back at work and I'm kinda sad that he's not here today but I can get so much more done with him at work and not distracting me ?

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Hi Ladies, hope you are all well.

Had such a special weekend, we got to celebrate our 5th year anniversary at church yesterday. Our anniversary is actually on the 30th but since we will be away on our baby-makation we decided to celebrate it yesterday and hubby had to fly back to CT afterwards.

@ Hope, I'm not on any medication but maybe the moringa powder had something to do with this change ...and FX for Wednesday
@Trenge, aah men, at least he took initiative.
@Ayesha, hope your granddad is getting better, enjoy the resting period
@ Nicola, I glad all went well and yaaa the dynamics of friendships change, especially when there's distance involved. Just know that we are here for you and praying for positive results.

Hoping for a BFP soon...

*BABY DUST *

Hi ladies just checking to see how ya'll week started.

I'm praying for all the bfp.
I'm not gonna mention anyone by name coz I've got limited time.
@nNicolaF I really hope this works for you. That's such a bummer from your friend in durbs, but ur right friendships do change. I don't have friends, I have my little family as my friends. And my twin sister is my best friend. She's the only one I can depend on 100% anytime and all the time.
I'm know what u mean about not wanting to be disappointed. But do not think too much either. What's put out for u will happen dear. I wish I can call u and make u feel better.
AFM hubby took the pill himself two days in a row which was a wow. But still not letting him set me up for disappointment. Sometimes he's in the game 100% other times he seem not to care at all. So im taking it one day at a time until THAT day actually arrives. Good luck to all and tons of baby dust

Hi Ladies

I hope you all had a great weekend!!!

Firstly thank you all for your support & messages, means a lot. So the IUI went well! my specialist is just so divine he made it all very relaxing! It wasn't painful at all, just slightly uncomfortable as the catheter went into my uterus but otherwise fine. I did have pretty bad cramping afterwards though, like really bad period pain. I was feeling quote emotional after (and still am!!) so lucky my husband had an admin day so he took the work phone and left me to sleep for a bit. I won't lie I am finding it a bit hard, I don't really know how to feel, its so differnt to a normal cycle!! I so want to be EXCITED but i am so scared for the disappointment so i am trying not to be too positive but then I don't want my body to feel stressed and negative either!! Blood test is scheduled for Wednesday 4th April which is 12 sleeps after the IUI....i'm worried its too early????

Feeling super emotional this morning. Also just so disappointed in my bestie in Durban...have barely heard from her the past week or so and she out of most people should know how emotional this process is for us and how important it is. But its like she is just too busy with her own life right now, and then when she needs me she will be in touch. She said I must ring her after its done...no message of good luck or support or anything no message afterwards (except in a girlie whatsapp group with some other friends)...nothing. I just think why should I call her, surely she could pick up the phone and check on me?? Arghhhhh finding as I get older friendships seem to change so much. But am just taking in all the support from other friends some of which are new friends i've made in CPT and of course you girls. Don't know what I would do without you all!! Sorry for the moan ladies....emotions are running very high this morning literally just cry at the drop of a hat!!! These times I find it hard being away from my family too but hey ho! Hormones hey haha!

Anyway starting Monday with a positive mind despite the tears and hopefully this 4 day week flies by!!!!! And I am hoping the Easter bunny shows up at my door with lots of chocolate hahah!!!

@Ayesha that make up looks awesome...I am poor now though after this treatment How much is it though? Sending love and strength for your grandad xxx

@Trenge I know exactly how you feel with the hormones...i am like that most months!! praying you get a BFP. Very true what Ayesha says about the men...they need a bit of TLC too, I just laugh sometimes coz us women really do go through hell but then we have to give them tlc lol!!! i'm sure he will come around hun...sometimes its a big dent in their ego and they will deal with it in their own way. Keep feeding him those pills love xxx

@Hope oh hun I really am praying you get your BFP this week!!!! Please keep us posted and i'll say extra prayers for you xxx


Sending love, light & babydust to all of you on this group. Hopefully we get some BFP's before we have to start a TTC 2019 group. Fingers crossed
xxx