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8 years 6 months ago #279712 by Maritz_J
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I am 35
Husband 39
We have 2 kids 13yr daugter and 7yr boy
Had 6 miscarriages between the 2.
After my last misscarriage Fertility dr did some test and found that it was my whiteblood sells that block the blood flow/ attacking the fetus. All miscarriages was at about 10-12 weeks.
I am trying now 10 monthes to concieve again. But nothing.
Had my Copper T removed in July 2017.
Home test show possitive for ovalation.
Siklus tussen 35 en 36 dae.
Any thing i can take or do to help this please...
Thanks

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8 years 6 months ago #279707 by MamaK
Replied by MamaK on topic Time to begin TTC 2018!
Heeey @Ayesha I am great thank you, keeping hope alive. Hope you are feeling a little better and relaxed going into your break.

I will be in Mahikeng with my family this weekend and I cannot wait, it is always SO much fun being around family, and I could use a distraction from ttc.

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8 years 6 months ago #279706 by trenge
Hi ladies I trust this post is finding you all in good spirit.
@mamak welcome back.
@Ayesha I'm glad u decided to take a break from ttc but I'm sure all the ttc is still hindering at u. Maybe at the back of ur mind. Its strange how when we begin this journey of ttc how everything changes. The way we see things differently, the way we feel differently the way we think also changes. Its like entering whole new world and we'll only get out of that way of thinking, feeling once we've reached the end of our journeys and have our little bundles of joy. But thumbs up for u dear.
@hope2 I was really rooting for u this month. Sorry that af came. Even if uve kept ur hopes at a reasonable level. Same like me, last month I went for the HSG and they'd done it on ovulation day which wasn't supposed to happen but anyway. I was bleeding after that and couldn't do no bd, so I was sure af would show her ugly face. Yet I was so disappointed when she did. Silly me since I knew my situation at that time.
Hence me not looking forward to any bfp anymore. I would rather be suprised if I'm truly late than be gutted every month.
@NicolaF, seems like ur th only one still in the running for a bfp. We pray for u dear.

AFM. I'm supposed to ovulate today. But im in the predicament. I've noticed nice fertile cm Monday and Tuesday, but since yesterday it's becoming more creamy.im not really sure what's going on. And no that hubby is on heat so much I'm dry. I have to give a thumbs up for hubby for hes passion three days in a row coz I cant remember when I had it so much. Sorry tmi, hubby suffers from ED so I don't know where this new found energy is coming from because he's not even using medication. Not that I'm complaining. Maybe he feels he needs to prove something to me because he will be 50 yrs old on Thursday. He dont want to hear he's getting old lol.
Anyway dearies was chatting with a lady from another forum and she started using pregnacare conception and opks, and she did get her bfp today. First cycle using pregnacare. She was trying for many years . So I just thought I'd let u ladies know.

I hope u all are looking forward to the long weekend. I don't celebrate easter but I'm so grateful for the long weekend that comes along with it.
Happy easter all you beautiful ladies. And baby dust to u all

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8 years 6 months ago #279700 by ayesha07

HoPe2 wrote: Cant believe how upset i am. Was so sure id kept my hopes at a reasonable level. Im destroyed. So sad.
Jammer vir die snot n trane....

@hope it's totally understandable no matter how had we try not to get our hopes up our subconscious is still there. This journey is emotionally draining.

@Nicola no matter what we are here. Might not be there physically but in spirit we are with you always.

@mamak it's so good to hear from you. How you keeping? Fx for your cycle



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8 years 6 months ago #279699 by MamaK
Replied by MamaK on topic Time to begin TTC 2018!
Hello Ladies,

I trust you are all doing ok.

I have not logged on in a while, I managed to catch up with the last few posts.

@Nicola, I am praying so hard for you, you deserve your miracle. I am sorry you have been feeling so emotional, however, allow yourself to feel whatever way, let all those feelings out girl, and don't feel bad about it, it is allowed. I know what you mean about having unsupportive friends, I went through the same thing after having my first child, people just disappearing on you, and it hurts because most of us live far from our families and have our close friends as our support system, and they desert you where you are most vulnerable. Believe me you won't be down forever, your rise is coming and you are gonna come out on the other side as a better and stronger person. Hang in there.

@Hope, WOW AF is something else, I remember reading your post this morning and was so hopeful, now this?! I am so sorry dear, we keep trying. I think the last time you asked how old I am, when I spoke about irregular cycle, I'm 29, turning 30 on the 12 July (and I am freaking out, don't know why, lol).

@Ayesha enjoy the time off TTC, regroup and come back stronger

@Trenge Men are special beings hey, but I'd say take the positives out of the situation, those days when he does take the medication, that's what we run away with and hold on to. All will be fine.

AFM no update from my side really, I'm on CD 17, so we wait and see what this cycle has in store for us.

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8 years 6 months ago #279698 by HoPe2
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Cant believe how upset i am. Was so sure id kept my hopes at a reasonable level. Im destroyed. So sad.
Jammer vir die snot n trane....

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8 years 6 months ago #279697 by HoPe2
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Im out. Cd27 of 30. AF came :cry:

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