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16 years 4 months ago #55677 by Meags
ah fawhaway I am so sorry to hear your story :(
I am just asking out of curiosity and to understand your position better, but would you consider divorce?

I personally salut you for not wanting to bring in a child to a husband who doesnt respect you.

I heard a quote the other day:

"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother"

and I feel that quote couldnt be more true.

That is really unacceptable that your DH is telling your son to call you a bitch. how old is your son?

I am so sorry :( we are all here for you though xx

Professional Nurse and Midwife
www.bump-and-beyond.net
Live in Paris, France
Drug free, natural birth

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16 years 4 months ago #55674 by shols
fawhaway - i am so so sorry to hear about what ur Husband does to u - he really sounds mean.
I would advise u to go back on the pill - its not fair to u or your next baby to have him/her under such terms.

i really am sorry that u going through such a terrible ordeal.

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16 years 4 months ago #55668 by Tazzy
NO BFP here either :angry:

Its been..Chris, Aspoestertjie, Capi, Lizzy, who else?

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16 years 4 months ago #55667 by fawhaway
Hi all. my red robot arrived late last night..looks like im back to short cycles again. this is driving me mad. can't wait for next month to go to the gynae. i cried most of the night as we totally missed the egg. i have also realised how i have been treating my husband and how he has been treating me. he keeps saying we will land up divorced and with the way he has been treating me it makes one wonder. he has been trying to teach my son to call me a bitch and a dom darkie. i don't want my son growing up with him thinking its ok to call me those things. i have decided im going on the pill or something because i refuse to bring another child into this world with a husband who treats me like shit and i don't keep quiet. he never kisses ME and has now started sleeping IN another bed. i6hope you all have a great day. im going TO try keep my head up but the tears are already back. hugs. [img/]

1st son born 8 april 2009. 2nd son born 10 march 2011. Live in cape town. I got divorced on the 30th of june 2011. Remarried and now happily trying for number 3. www.doulaservices.co.za

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16 years 4 months ago #55660 by shols
ahhh sorry lizzy - i don't have skype - would have loved to chat tho.

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16 years 4 months ago #55657 by ChanM
Congrats on your BFP Lizzy!! Awesome news! When are you going for HCG test?

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16 years 4 months ago #55648 by Lizzy_Jblocked
I hope so to Shols...
Any of you ladies on Skype, we can have group chats there? Send me your skype name then we can chat instantly....if you want

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