oh Hexy, I am so so sorry ... I really am thinking of you this week. I hope you have a lot of support to see you through this anniversary. I know you will never forget them and all I can pray is that the pain eases with time xxx
Cisca, I'm ok

AF is just murdering me today! OMW!!!
KLK, I really hope everything resolves itself now and you dont have to go through surgery

xxx
SIL Update: She saw the specialist again on Saturday and the news wasnt good. They found active cancer cells in her breast and the lymph node they removed from her on Tuesday and from the MRI. She went to the oncologist on Monday, she has to have 6 months of really heavy chemo and then the mastectomy. Apparently the 1st 4 months will be the worst and she will lose her hair... She went to a mamogram specialist as well and he checked the left breast (Which is clear - Thank Heavens) and also inserted the marker in her right breast so they can monitor the progress of the chemo. She also now has to go for a full catscan to see if the cancer has spread anywhere else..
It was her birthday yesterday so we will probably do dinner on Friday night.
AFM, DH and I have started taking Stamino Gro. It really works well and we took it with Evan. I start my new role on the 1st - I cannot wait. I am already doing some stuff and I think I really will enjoy it. It's a little different but in a good way. So far I like my new boss. Evan slept through last night for the 1st time in months - woop woop

We also painted a wall in our kitchen orange / red and it looks stunning. I did the final coat yesterday. It's the 1st non white wall in our house since we painted everything white

The previous owner had painted everything pastel blue, yellow and lilac and the walls were filthy from her dogs.
How is everyone???