TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

ok so have been a bit of a roofkyker this week:

Tracy - fantastic chart hun xxx FX this is it - and no not peer pressuring you to test

Andy - woo hoo on your POA - looking forward to watching your space

Hayley - he is blackmailing you with BD ??? WTF? And he understands its not because you are spiting him or his folks, you are thinking of your daughter like he should?? is DJ Ossewa really worth it all ? as the girls say he is sending mixed signals - eish can I come sort him out seriously?! strongs hunny xoxox

Ilse - love your no-nonsense approach nice on the weight loss BTW

Simone - the gynae thought Lalie was having a girl, but confirmed boy - hope that answers

O ja, Tracy, wanted to say.... I looked at some Clomid charts on FF and LOTS of people get BFP's on 11 and 12DPO...... And then their charts don't even look as good as yours.... **nudge nudge wink wink**

Hayley, I would give him a big fat slap for that one if I was you. The cheeck!! So now he's going to use sex as a reward for you to do his bidding?? Sounds like a major a-hole to me... Sorry to say.

I can't believe the cheeck of the man... Wow that's bad.

Oh!!! Listen to this!!!!!!!!!!!

He said we can BD every second night IF i go with him, his dad and mom as well as Chloe to DJ Ossewa????

WTF??? Now he's bribing me?????

Thanks girls...

Tracy, i dont feel comfortable to take Chloe to a place like that... Let alone his mother in a wheelchair... Why must i look after her? So he can drink and enjoy himself? And rock up at home in the early hours of the morning.. Sorry im over that...

Andy, i will do just that... I REALLY dont care anymore this has been happening since last week... We have had ssex ONCE since my op which was 3 weeks ago... He is not interested in babies, but that's fine now... Not a problem... He is just plain darn lazy!!!!!!!!

Ilse, now that you mention wasting money, i agree with you 100% friend, R4000.00 co-payment down the drain... And your right about our marriage not being rock solid and i sure as hell dont want to bring a baby into a marriage like that...

So im still gonna be here for all you girls, cheering you all on

Man! Im angry

Andy I love the advice about being spiteful...I think its just something built into us women! Be assertive with yout gynae...been allowing your ttc journey to go on for too long I think!!

Hayley....I would be BEYOND annoyed!

I agree with Ilse.....perhaps take a step back...sounds like your hubby is giving signals that he is not on the same path you are on...this being difficult with you could just be him trying to annoy you or piss you off as his rebellion to the TTC

Strikkie where are you going?

SH I dont know why I keep missing the post....so sorry to ask you to relive this...but how did your dad pass away? Were you guys close? (Dont answer if you dont want to)

Sue you've been very quiet?

Tracy...hello! So you may be testing tomorrow???? I am really praying for a BFP on this thread!!

Tanasha and Laliek...hope you are well! Laliek I posted question about when you were told you were having a boy because initially it was girl???...not sure if you replied and I missed it??

I have so much to do...but our server was down all week...so just enjoying being back on the internet as I please! lol.

Let me get cracking with some work:-(

Does anyone have contact with Chanz? I wonder if she went for bloods today??