TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Morning ladies!

Yay, its Friday!

Strikkie - enjoy your nice break!

Tracy - looking good.... really hope it has a happy ending.

Andy - sorry about the spotting, but I think prog treatment will help a lot!

Hayley - my opinion - you guys need to take a complete step back from TTC and focus on your relationship and marriage first. You were pregnant before you got married, then you had the trauma of Liam and immediately started TTC again. It has been more than a year talking to you and your DH has also sounded to me as if he doesn't want a child right now. I think you are wasting your money on all the treatments etc. You can't bring a child into this world without your marriage being rock-solid.

Have a great day girls!!

xxxx

Hayley : Well, this has often been a wedge inbetween the two of you, and I'm sure it always will be.
You both need to somehow come to an understanding of how the whole parent vs wife/husband relationship works....he needs to understand you will NOT always put his parents first, and if you are not comfortable taking Chloe to the concert, then it's your right not to! If he feels you are being unfair, then he needs to sit down and put himself in your shoes, and see the picture from the other side of the window.
Easier said than done, especially with stubborn mommy's boy's....but it has to at least be attempted.

As I say, this has happened a good few times, and you both always come out husband and wife again. So I'm pretty sure this will blow over, just as all the other problems have. Anger makes it seem 100 times worse....and we have ALL been there!!! Just in different situations (sometimes the same...).

So I hope this all blows over quickly!

Thanks Trace. I think I'll give the CD21 test a skip then because I'd like to see a "clean" result, if you know what I mean? I've just e-mail him because he's busy with consultations this morning, but I can guarentee he'll have something to say about me already ovulating on my own and not needing the Clomid. But I'm going to insist on it. And I'm not telling him I'm not coming back to see him ever again...

Hayley, this thing with his mother and father has been coming for a long time hasn't it? Weren't they on honeymoon with you? I agree, it's very selfish of him to expect you to go just to look after his mom. Surely Chloe must come first? But then again, DJ Ossewa is no big deal... It's not like it's a heavy metal band, they're just a plain old Afrikaans groupie. My niece goes to concerts all the time and she's only 2.

With regards to him doing his own thing this weekend and you have to stay home... LET him do his own thing. And you organise your own thing!! Go to a friend's house for the day or go walk around at the mall. Take Chloe to see a movie or something. Just make sure not to be home when he get's there. MAKE SURE he knows you also have a life. And surely if he can do his own thing, then he can cook and clean for himself as well?

Well, that's what I would do, but I can be very spiteful at times, so.... Just my 2 cents.

Andy, he is the most self centred idiot i have ever come across!!!!!!!!

Let me tell you what happened and please by all means give me you opinions...

A friend of ours has got tickets for DJ Ossewa for i think the end of the month and i said to him i dont want to go as i dont like DJ Ossewa and i feel its not a place for a 3 yr old child. So i said by al means he can go and take his dad with him.

His mom is in a wheelchair as she has had a operation on her foot, so she cant walk, she cant even move around in the wheelchair, so she doesnt visit friends and family cos she cant move around in the wheelchair, so he asked can i please go with to DJ Ossewa to help his mom around to take her to the toilet etc... HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hell is your mom gonna do there if she cant get around in the wheelchair???????

Thats not a place for her either, so he's all pissed off with me cos i wont help his mom around at the concert...
So i have to look after her and Chloe while at DJ Ossewa???? WTF??????

Then he says to me he is doing his own this weekend i must stay at home... He is the BIGGEST idiot!!!!!!!!!

Im very upset... Just wanna burst into tears, so if i dont do anything for his mommy and his mommy is more important then he must pack his bags and move in with his parents, i've had ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Andy : YAY for your POA - Clomid and progesterone supp's will help, I'm sure. Just don't forget the PreSeed!!!!
And as for doing CD21 while on supplements. You can still go, but your levels will be raised due to the supplements. But this is a good thing. If they aren't raised, then the supplments would need to be changed or dosage adjusted....
But you have to get the gynae to give you the results - I'm not 100% sure what a medicated progesterone count should be.

Strikkie : My temp went up a little more, nothing major....
You must be excited!!! Can't wait to hear your blood results when you get back!

Hayley : What happened now??

Argg damn Andy, maybe it is progesterone problem, i think i have one thats why my temps are so low. BUT i had a itsy bitsy small little rise this morning
Thx!

Yup, Strikkie, still spotting. But I'm used to it already

Good luck with the bloods and enjoy your break!! Wish I was you...