Hallo, hallo...sorry I have been MIA.
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ZelF-Sorry to hear you bleeding, hope you were able to entertain yourself while on bedrest? How are things going at work? I know it is easier said than done, but try and stay calm...(says the girl that freaked out so spectacularly during the c-sec I tried to get off the operating table)
Ashleigh, cannot wait for the spring to properly begin in Cape Town, we are still freezing...also longing for that first swim, just occured to be, that our complex has a solar heating system for the pool, so maybe, just maybe I will be able to get a swim in tonight. The sun finally came out so looks promising.
Carlene, I have never been able to follow a diet properly, tried the South Beach diet before the wedding and that worked wonders, but that only lasted a couple of months.
Cakes, how is the wedding plans coming along?
Chubby your DH sounds sweet, can I send mine for training?
DH and I have also had a bit of a rough patch. Broke into tears on Saturday night and finally got everything off my chest so at least he knows how I feel and I can see he is trying to make an effort, lets hope it sticks. He has been very absent and leaving alone with out son very often and I just dont feel like I have him in my corner (know what I mean?) so told him Sat night that he needs to be more present. I deserve better, his son deserves better and he needs to shape up. Breaks my heart everytime he leaves then I must tell our son stories when he asks where daddy is. LIke he will go to his parents house the entire saturday and leave me and our son to do whatever. If we want to be with him we must spend out time there, and that is not fair. I like my MIL but I dont want to spend that much time with them.
Carlene, we were in Ashton for Christmas when I was pregnant with my son (I was about 36-38 weeks then) and it was horrible. It gets just as hot as in Upington. Took a inflatable pool with

and it turned out to be great fun.
To all the girls that have names in mind, how fortunate. I cannot seem to think of any. Our surname is Swanepoel and I want an English name but not too English *( I am going to raise my kids fully biligual-have English schools in mind and Afrikaans names will just make things difficult for them). I like Llewellyn, but DH is not keen on it
Oh and Doc thinks it is another boy (must have done something wrong in my previous life that I am being punished...)Had to cancell my scan for last week due to work pressures and next appt is only 10 October, so will have to wait till then to be sure.
Hope I didn't forget anyone?