@Joybaby: I just wrote a whole long post and it didn't post!

Anyway, I was saying that I totally get you about our caregivers being upfront with us. My biggest fear is that my gynae is going to wait until that time when I am almost due and I am scared & vulnerable to start telling me all the risk factors and why it unadvisable to have a caesar. He's already asked me what was wrong with my last caesar? & why would I want to put myself through a vbac?
I have consulted with a midwife from Genesis and I loved her. I have decided to use her from now on so seeing her for next appointment in about 4 weeks time. i am very excited!
Thanks for advice about wall heater. Where can I buy it? Builders warehouse? makro? game? Even though baby will be born in Spring, it only really warms up around end October- beginning November in Gauteng so I still would like to have one.
What a coincidence about feeling both babies movements for the 1st time at about the same time in your pregnancy!
I seem to be having that pelvic pain that u normally experience after 30 weeks when baby is really big. Like the baby's weight is weighing heavily on your pelvis. Strange that this time I am having it SO much earlier

Anyone else?