Good Morning Ladies,
@Juanita, thank you with regards to the name, its really growing on us but will keep my options open just incase
Ive hit the half way mark

Hubby actually was surprised last night at how BIG I am, its as if he hasnt seen me naked ever, and while bathing with my daughter last night looked at me in shock and just blurted out geez you are BIG, then to cover up said thats because its a boy
@Pillpusher thats such a cute little cover up for a buy - will try see if I can find it here otherwise my idea of just putting a few wet wipes should work - I hope... trial and error it will be.
On the topic of voicing your opinion - seriously I dont think you need to apologise or feel ostracized at all. This is a forum, things can easily be taken the wrong way because we not in conversation where our tone of voices can change and show that we not putting down the idea we just dont agree with it. Thats why i joked with you and said i want to show you my ideas vs the photographers ideas.
Sometimes in our pregnant minds something just sounds so awesome and then when youve had baby you look back at the pics and think WTF!
Here is my examples feel free to laugh
My Idea - Oh NO!!!
My Idea - I love!
Photgraphers Idea - I Love!
The Cliche - hehehe I cant show you the one of us in full I hate it, my face looks weird
I have pics where im like oh no look at my face because I love smiling, I look aweful serious, and I couldnt open up my eyes properly with the fan, that she had to stop the fan too. Everyone has their own preference.