Hi Kirsten
Unfortunately I'm in CPT, otherwise I would've recommended my gynae to you any day.
It is as BellasMom says, it can be slightly weird....but they ask those questions to at least 10 woman a day and see V-jayjays everyday
I found what worked for me what finding a gynae of similar age.
The male thing didn't work for me, then I attended a middle aged female for quite a few years. Then last year I told her we were thinking about little ones, then the 1st thing she did was look at my ring finger. I was sooo offended (we are not married but have been together for longer than some people have been dating and married- but that's besides the point)
I now have a younger female gynae and I really love going to her. There is that dr-patient relationship, but I don't feel judged. She is soft and makes me feel so comfortable by closing as much as she can but still allowing her to do her job.
Yes, internal scans at 1st....after all my annual gynae visits that is the norm for me now, but if they know this is your 1st time they will explain more.
Hope you come right.! Don't stress too much. There is a lot of other baby stuff you can rather worry about
BellasMom, until what week in the pregnancy do they do internal scans?
My next scan is on Wednesday...so excited!!!