Happy Monday everyone
Esmari, I hope you feel better soon! It really is awful being sick and pregnant. How is your SIL doing?
Thamu, I'm not on ML, I just stopped working. Not going back, so when Leani is 3mnths old I will have to look for a new job... which means I won't have any UIF either... bit scary
MsDee & tshepym01, yeay on the surprise baby showers

I hope you have enjoyed every second of it! Mine was a total suprise as well. I stay far away from my family, so my mom booked a whole guesthouse for the long weekend in March. DH took me there on the Saturday telling me he needs to find out some prices for someone. I was very surprised and it was so nice to have my whole family there for a whole 3 days! It was like a mini-family-reunion! And of course Leani got spoiled rotten
Solo, I am very sorry to hear that your BF has started his nonsense again

I will keep on praying for his mind-set to change! Maybe you should sit down with him and tell him what his insensitivity is doing to you? My DH also used to let "something" drop every once in a while and then one day I could not take it anymore and told him exactly how he made me feel and then he apologized and since then he has been very sweet and caring towards me (and I must admit that since we started ante-natal classes and he saw other couples going through exactly the same stuff as us, he also changed his mind set about the whole pregnancy)