Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

LOL LOL LOL HELEN!!!

Vix, the other day the same happened with Abi. C also keeps them in his bedside table (we use condoms AND the pill, as firstly, maybe TMI but I don't like all the mess and secondly I would sooner die than fall pregnant again!) and Abi very casually comes walking in with the box and the bottle of lube. I just burst out laughing.
Our 'toys' are hidden in the study cupboard in a box because my little brother is VERY nosy!!

Not much planned for us today. I want to take a long shower, shave, scrub and wax. PLay with the twins, then while they're napping I want to curl my hair (haven't done that in ages) and then pack all their stuff. And then get ready. We aren't letting them sleep there. They get too difficult and they just don't want to sleep there. I think it's coz my aunt and uncle smoke, and even though they do it outside, the twins aren't used to smoke AT ALL coz C smokes by the cars so I don't smell it (it really irritates my nose) and then he comes to wash his hands etc. And they have like 100 dogs that all sleep in the house and the twins are also not used to so much pet hair because our dogs sleep by my dad and the cat sleeps in my dads lounge. So I think all of that bothers them. So we'll go fetch them between 10 and 11.

I'm so in the mood to get all dressed up. C says I'm like a little girl. I've already planned what I'm wearing lol. Black pants/ Jeans with a white button down shirt and 4 strands of pearls, all different sizes, hair curled and in a messy bun and LOTS of smokey make-up. YAY! lol

Vix i saw the old post and thought...hmmm...i'm sure i read this before! lol

Ok..Helen...LMAO! *SPEECHLESS* ...ok laughing again!!!! Thank goodness Vix's neighbour was not there to see that! ha ha!!!!

Vix...i probably would have died on the spot..I am quite the prude...very shy...Gerard is not even allowed to talk to me about sex and i blush...he says i'm like a child..so ya...Addy walking with condoms would kill me. I can just see C...like...What's she on about?? ha ha!

Let me get to bed...very cold. Soccer finish...so G also ready for bed...seeing as he is falling asleep on the couch!

Shame vix...hope whatever it is will ease up soon w.r.t pain.

Friend's MIL....i agree...total Biyatch!

Not sure why my phone posted last nights post again..... Odd!

O.k sorry I was MIA today and didn't reply properly last night. Last night I felt terrible, just couldn't decide if I needed to lay down or sit on the loo but either way I was in pain. A bit better today but burning sensation going on around my ovaries. I think that although the MS isn't as bad as before the cramps are worse, probably the scar tissue pulling as my uterus grows.

Today I went through to PTA to givew some quotes on matric dresses but actually just gave them prices and one girl advice then walked away. Bit of a waste of a day especially as I needed to work on the PC. Only got home at 6pm and we left at 7am.

C just had a huge hissy fit at bedtime all because I used a NUK bottle for his milk and he wanted a standard bottle! You'd think it wouldn't matter but obviously he's attached to having his pigeon bottle for bedtime LOL, I let him drink on my lap then took him to bed, gave a kiss and left and he didn'rt make a peep so it looks like he's now comfortable enough about the new bed to sleep without me laying down! We're progressing fast!

The huggies Gold were perfect, completely dry even after an hour of being awake! I'm only using them for night time, will still use cheapies for the daytime but really pleased he wasn't soaked this morning.

Christi- thanks so much for the email address, I emailed them, I hope they contact me soon!

Today I took C to my friends school in PTA for 2 hours, wow he had a ball! I struggled to keep him in my sight. Everyone kept telling me to relax because he'd be fine but I just can't not watch him when I'm standing there.

Lisha- oh I just loved the plaster over the noonies idea, you crack me up! Glad you got the whiskey. I don't like drinking whiskey but I do know a lot about it, I took all the whiskey tours when I was in Scotland. A single malt whiskey will mature with age whilst under cask conditions but as soon as it is bottled it no longer matures and actually starts to deteriorate. It's a very slow deteroriation but if you want a good whiskey it should be cask matured for many years and then fairly recently bottled. Keep it away from direct sunlight too!

PFairy- thanks so much for all your effort with the I'd kits! Sorry my posts are so long LOL some days I can really waffle!

I need to make DH a card from C for fathers day, he'll get breakfast in bed and that's it coz I didn't even get a card! Not really out of tit for tat but mainly cos I didn't get the chance for a pressie and am not feeling like shopping tomorrow.

Simone- hope a fantastic job with great future prospects comes your way very very soon! Don't cry because Addy is fine with your Mum and you and G deserve some quiet time. Just enjoy it!

Zee- don't feel bad about wanting a night off! I offered my mum to take C for a whole month LOL and no I wasn't joking and no I wouldn't miss him enough to get him before the month was up, DH however can't last a day without C.

Angie- know that feeling of never getting a night off but my mum treated us to a night away whilst she sat C, wow, it was truely amazing to be alone with DH for a full night, we held hands and felt like teens again. Even if you have to drive 2 hours to leave CJ with a family member DO IT, you don't realise how much you missed your couple time until you get a little taster! I can't wait til my mom moves closer, I'll leave C with her at least once a week. I believe every mommy and addy stilll deserves alone time.

Nelly- if you need someone to take you shopping shout! I can go anytime in the week when Lea is in school but I think the nappy specials end this weekend.

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Yoza- I hope you're enjoying the game! I must say feeling nervous..... Frank Lampard's attempt at goal just now was foiled by the goalie

Lisha- Thinking of you and your family this weekend, I can't belive it has been 7 months, I hope the prayers go well.

Helen- I love it! I just love your little story on Oliver's new teether! That's the sort of nonsense I would find C up to. Actually that reminded me, DH has always kept condoms in his bedside draw ( no idea why still, they're probably out of date by now LOL) one day when my neighbour turned up for coffee (she's 21 and the 'never been kissed' type) C comes walking into the lounge having found the whole box of condoms and with one in his mouth, she said "what are you eating? Come here....." OMG I span around to see her face go bright red as she realised what he had LOL I must say Adult parafinalia doesn't embarass me, I'm very open about it but I was just mortified for her as she didn't know where to look or what to say. She has never checked what C's eating ever since LOL

Julz- email me about tracksuit pants anytime, I can always make a little time for making pants. Great news about the Psychologist being covered! 15 visits, what will that give you about 7m? That's much better!

I already have quite a belly going on and today my friends MIL (it's always MIL's isn't it) said to me "only 11w, wow, well that's not really the baby is it" as she wobbled my tummy LOL BITCH! I'm pretty sure Nelria will tell you, at her stork party when I was 6w I hardly had a tummy so I wouldn't say it's fat, maybe swelling and bloatedness but not fat! Let's face it, it is because of the baby that I have this belly. Besides, I'm loosing weight still so it can't be flab! Old women are nasty hey? She's a Brit too and they are not really known for their subtleness when they get old. I just laughed at her LOL

Sorry if I forgot anyone, another long post for PFairy to enjoy,

Hey Gals

Shesh man - you guys really do talk too much, just took me an hour and a half to catch up on WAY too many pages!

I think i will get Dh a foot print of cams in the cement. You can buy the cement kit at Mr price - I hope, seen them there long ago, if not i will try a few baby shops.. also want to make a sign that says I LOVE YOU DADDY! and take a pic of cam holding it up for daddy, then frame it.. and then biltong of course and a card.. DH took me out for breakfast but no presants for me!

Julz - Dylan is Hilarious brushing his willy!

Well i have really managed to confuse cam with trying to potty train him too early. I took his pants off and brought him to the toilet and pointed to his willy and said wee wee and then pointed to the toilet. He says woo woo - WHICH I LOVE! and now he points to his willy all the time and says woo woo! then even funier.. when i take my top off , he looks at my boobs and says Woo woo!!!1 ha ha ha ha aha ah - gals - i think he thinks my boobs like like a willy!! HA HA HA HA HA!!!

Vix, your big bed single bed sound like the way to go, even if the todler beds look cute!i am in no rush to get cam out of his cot.. i hope he sleeps in there for the rest of winter and when it warms up we will THINK about moving him!

Vix - i still love pampers, and only get the occasional leak at night. cam also drinks about 240 mls before bed.. but i actually use size 6 at night and then size 5 during the day..

Nelria, i dont think we are doing anything different with cam so im not sure why he is better.. perhaps he is getting used to the germs going around in his class?? I still dont like to give him any dairy.. and Nicole i bought the nutura nose stuff, but only started 2 days ago.. Nelria, one thing i might be doing better is starting the natural and less potent meds sooner when his nose starts to run. I used to think you should leave it and let it clear up on its own, now I start with the sterimar nasal spray 3 or 4 times a day and i also wait 5 minutes after the that nasal spray to give the illidin instead of putting it up a blocked nose, i think it helps. Then also there is a syryp called VEnteze which is like a ventolin pump for a tight chest and it costs R13 ~~ and i give that to him twice a day. plus the deselex each night to let him sleep ..

Cameron is battling with dry cheeks though, he got it last year when we were at the dermatologist eventually coz nothing the paed gave worked, but now im on the strong stuff ( advantan and it just seems to come back each day again and then clear a bit at night!! grrrr I think its probably the bubbles that cam gets in his bath that he shouts for everynight! i think we will have to pretend its allll goonneeee and let him cry it out!!

okay love you all longtime, have a good week end what ever you do !!

Evening ladies,

wow a lot of chatting these past couple of days, been trying to keep up in between unpacking boxes but you're too fast for me lol.

Vix, Nicole, Ally - hope you all feel better!

Lisha will be thinking of you on Sunday.

Zee - Don't feel bad about wanting some you time, I'm jealous and if we had the option available to us we'd most definitely use it!

Yoza - You lucky fish (green with envy), hope you enjoy the match!

Julz - Yay on being able to see psycologist more frequently, 2 weeks apart sounds waaay too long.

Angelique - Hope you enjoy your weekend away - a change is as good as a rest no matter where you go and I'm sure you guys will have fun. Lol at grudges and Father's Day hehe.

PFairy - Wow you are one creative mother! I wish I had your inspiration not to mention the obvious energy you must need for all these activities! I am however taking mental notes ready for when I do have the energy

Simone, Ara, Chrisda, Nelria and anyone else I haven't mentioned hello lovely mommies!

The unpacking is nearly all done, thank goodness now for the rest of the stuff we need to get sorted.

Can you believe I still don't have my car back?! They've been fixing it for nearly 6 weeks now and no amount of trying to get answers from Dial Direct (be it politely or otherwise lol) has been successful. The service we've received is absolutely disgusting, thank goodness I'm changing insurers at the end of the month! They have finally said it should be ready next week, I'm so desperate to have my freedom and independence back.

I have to share this with you, sorry if its too much for some of you lol. I was unpacking a box today and Oliver was running around entertaining himself and 'helping' as and when he wanted to. Anyway, I'm busy packing stuff out of the box into a drawer and the next thing I realise he's gone quiet (now we all know that means something dodgy is happening). So I go look for him, I'd completely forgotten that one of mummy and daddy's 'toys' had been in the box, he's casually walking around and biting on it like its an awesome new teether I nearly died lol

Enjoy your weekend ladies, we're doing more house stuff so no big Father's Day plans for us, I'll maybe let him have a lie in or something lol (I'm so generous hehe).

And finally, COME ON ENGLAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nicole I hope u feel better...headache sounds hectic!

Lisha my friend...thinking about u for sunday....i'm also feeling like its gonna be a sad one this side. Christi thinking of u as well for sunday.

Ok so had no money...i'm short on creativity but tried something for father's day.... A poem from Addy with her hand print in paint. A pic of the two of them...then a poem from me to him as a dad and hubby..with a lipstick kiss from me... All on one page in a frame. I think so far it's nice. Need to add prints and smooch. Will maybe get a chocolate.

Then sunday lunch will do my chicken and mushroom canneloni, fried chicken, roast potatoes and a lamb curry. Nothing fancy but he'll like it.

Vix what did u go do in pta today?

Nicole what's with K and Addy and the questions??lol. Addy's question of the week is 'where'... The other day she was looking for her animals and noah's ark box...and I packed it up and put it away. So after a while she is searching the floor, under the couch, under the pillow...eventually looks at me and goes 'where mama?'...with hand gestures....i'm like 'where what Addy?'...she looks at me...'where gee-raf?' (giraffe). Lol.... It was so cute...i had to give them to her...

Lisha lol re:series! With no ooh la la what is a girl to do? Lol @ shreyan and everything being tea!

speaking of ooh la la...Lelani moving this weekend???

Guys I was so so sad leaving Addy at my mom's.she was asleep tho...we dressed her, put her down first. But I get home and I kick my shoes off...usually she runs to get my slippers (ok I'm starting to well up)...flip I'm sad...lol. But even tho she is usually asleep...i miss her lots and feel guilty.(ok now I'm crying...lol)..must be the hormones!

Stupid dh went to his friend opposite the road to fetch something and taking his time coming back.ok its been 5min but really now!

Yoza enjoy the match! U r a soccer nut...with Lisha!

Julz a pity u won't see a game live...i hear the atmosphere is awesome!

Lisha I'm told the people sell tickets outside the stadium here in pe! Stacks of tickets! Dh trying to get tickets now to the england game!