Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

julzdylan wrote:

It was Mandy that had the fabulous idea of doing a special collection for you vix after Alex and Jono were born which I think was special.

Vix I wrote this to attest to Mandy's kind character and I am sorry if you felt it was directed at you. I most certainly know how incredibly greatful you were.

I'm sure many of us are staring at the screen...wondering what the heck to say to make everything okay again???

I saw from Mandy's fb status that she is feeling good this morning...so I'm happy about that.

Vix I know between you and Mandy that you will sort this out one way or another.

So much I want to say....but took me 2 hours of editing, retyping, redrafting this message! Preggie brain perhaps a bit slow and the words just dont come out right

Ally no MS...think it peaked in week 9 with Addison...but only for a week so hoping for a similar experience.

You guys know my mom still has said NOTHING about my pregnancy? Dont know what her problem is.... kinda hurtful...maybe because she has Addison she isn't overly excited about a second grandchild? Who knows.

Anyways...seems weird to talk like nothing happened here....

Hope all the kids had a good night...and Julz I hope Dylan is feeling better.

Julz- callme nasty call me cruel, call me vicious but don't call me un greatful that's one name I won't accept!

lol i meant your buttocks not ours he he he!!! Thanks will check out the link

Hi ladies

I also quite speechless. I dont have much to say on this topic as i think its a sensitive one and will proberly cause more uproar. I do however agree with Julz and think it is very sad that this happended.

Ally (insert jealous face here) enjoy your pampering, you have been working our buttocks off the last few weeks so you deserve it mommy!!!!! Enjoy and think of absolutly nothing........(besides poor us sitting at our desk and slaving away lol )

Yowzaaaa!! I leave for a few hours and come back to this. My mouth is actually on the ground.

I'm not going to say too much about this except for agreeing with Julz. I think Vix, you have been feeling funny about our thread for a while now and you even said you didn't like the last meet and I was actually taken a back by that but I choose not to make a big deal out of things.

Anyway, Yoza, so sorry for your loss. xxx

Simone & mandy, are you feeling morning sickness yet? That was the one way I knew I was pregnant....that damn MS!

I need to go do my hair quickly and then I'm off for my pampering. 60 minute facial, deluxe pedi and mani...are you jealous yet?

Oh, I did a Mother's day post with macarons if any of you want to check it out :
simply-delicious.co.za/2011/05/06/white-...ons-for-mothers-day/

This is quite a sad day. I am not sure of what annoys me more, your disregard for Mandy's feelings earlier or denial that you were so rude.

I spent a good few hours googling the possible causes of + tests for simone and to be honest they were less than helpful so I didn't say anything about them.

I find it especially sad that these two mom's early memories of their both very special pregancies have been marred by us.

It was Mandy that had the fabulous idea of doing a special collection for you vix after Alex and Jono were born which I think was special.

You have made it very clear that you are not that comfy here anymore and I get that. We change and move on and I know that you have made some very special friends on your other thread which is totally awesome.

I get that you are honest, but kindly take time to think about how your comments might make people feel.

We should all do that (me included).

It has been very hard to write this post and I always try to be the voice of reason, but would like to think that we have an equal voice here and should be able to use it.

Support comes in different ways. We are all influenced by our experiences which in turn makes us react the way we do. I feel we did support Simone in our own way and I don't think it is fair that we have been made to feel bad for it.