Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

I had to re read everything from today to just see where exactly it was that I was so nasty and attacking Mandy (which I must say I didn't see) because apparently I must be some kind of monster for suggesting that we as a whole are a little too quick to make our minds up on something. I never once used a specific name, and certainly didn't exclude myself from the guilt, I just thought that my origional statement might actually make us all think a little more in the future before we sign off on something.

It wasn't secret conversations with Simone that got me riled up, it was just from reading everyones comiserations for Simone after her neg bloods I was so shocked that no one could question why she was still getting +hpt's that made me a little dissapointed in the group's commeradery and I felt maybe we need to be a little more supportive in future events.

Yes I used Mandy's comment as a quote but not because it was just directed at her (remember I had already raised this issue with Mandy a few days back) I'm not so pathetic that I need to make hidden jibes at people, I tell you to your face if I don't like w you say. I used that statement because it shows what most were thinking, that the Dr said neg so it must be. The first thing that occured. To me was that perhaps she O'd late and had low results. But the bigger point is not about that subject anymore, that was dead and buried long ago when Mandy decided to lynch me for nout.

I was astounded at the sudden call that I was apparently gunning for Mandy???????? Hello someone ase tell me where I said "Mandy you are at fault"? Someone please tell me where I said "each and everyone of you made Simone feel like cr@p" ? No I didn't all I did was use examples of where we have in the past been very quick to discount possibilities.

As for everyone feeling the need to ask Simone if they had upset her? Please people, Did you not read my first statement, I was trying to suggest in the future we're not so quick to discount things, must I explain it again or do we think maybe I'm understood yet?

Now here's what I want to say about this afternoons attack on ME, yes ME and not mandy because I did not start any attack on Mandy even though that's exactly how it now looks. Mandy started to attack me for supposedly aiming at her and telling me I'm judgemental, well seriously let's not act like the innocent party here Mandy, Always supportive? I seem to clearly remember you not bing quite so supposrtive toward me, and I agree you did apologise and I accepted that apology and until today I would never have bought it up but here you have the cheek to call me judgemental for saying....... Oh what exactly????????? Sorry but I just had to remind you that actually you have your moments too girl don't act like the saint. Funny how sometimes something is good enough for you but not for everyone else.

I'm sorry if ppeople think it's wrong of me to say the things I do, I am straight forward and to the point and I'm sorry if it packs a punch. I will however not apologise for judging Mandy today because I re read everything and do not see where I judged Mandy today, And I will not apologise for my comment which was aparently so cruel because it was a true statement and one of feeling not fact.

I will take a wee breather from our thread for a few days, I'm not gone forever no need to bekon me back, I'm not looking for the attention vote but I am pretty worked up this side and don't really have the time to have sleepless nights over pathetic accusations. I will maybe pop back in when I have calmed down a bit, for now I'll go somewherwhere people find my honesty refreshing.

and now?

Vix sorry for once I am speechless.

Yoza-I'm so sorry to read about your Gran Hope your trip to PE to help your mum is a safe one xxx

Mandy- it was never about putting you bin your place it was just a comment this morning that we could all just be a little more supportive and a little less quick to turn to facts, I included myself in that catagory didn't you read?

Your posts were the ones that turnesd it into a bitch fight and I'm sorry but I won't stand here and be called Judgemental by you.

This was not sneakily directed at you, if you remember last week when Simone got her neg bloods and 3 + HPT's I still said to you straight that I felt surprised at your lack of support having basically gone through the same thing just a week before. There's no hiding or sneakyness, I tell it like it is already did that. Clearly honesty is not what you were looking for and I'm sorry for be so honest, I should've learnt my lesson by now.

You are cruel Vix, i was sooooooooooooooo apologetic last year for upsetting you in any way.

Thanks for that, I have been squarely put back in my place.

I haven't finished reading, I'm way too busy feeding babies but before I forget I want to say this:


Mandy- it SUCKS to feel incorrectly judged doesn't it?

Julz- I don't recall Mandy being too concerned about my delicate preggy hormonal state when she judged me last year????

Yoza, I am so sorry for your loss. May God's strength be with you at this time.