Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

lets try again...

zian drove me up the wall last night
he woke up at 12 asking for water...grrrrr, it's so hot in ct at night that I cant say no, so after getting him some water...luckily no bottle....if that's any conselation...he cried for me, so took ages to calm him down & go back to sleep....
then at 2 he woke up crying for me.....after battling for what seemed ages, I just got into bed with him....yes, yes, i know, bad mommy / sucker.....he kept waking up to check if I'm still there...grrrr
then at about 4 he cried for new water....that was the pits, coz there was still water in his cup, but no, he wanted new water
luckily dh then came in the room & told him with a very stern voice to go to sleep & to let mommy sleep in her room....
then this morning he cried for me at school
he did it yesterday morning as well I really hate it, coz I feel so bad for having to rush to work....grrrrrr
sowee....this is the not so happy lani

then I'm battling with Chanel & home work
her teacher send me a note saying that she never does her home work & that her book is uncomplete
I was so upset with her, coz she's so clever that she doesn't write the homework in her book, so I dont know about it
so the new law is: mommy is a police officer that will check books everyday!!!
boy she knows how to get the best & worst out of me!!!

vix, miss you 2 my freind xxx
not allowed to make personal calls at work anymore so I cant even phone you
please could you maby install Whatsapp on you're phone???
It's like bbm, but for all smart phones
simone has it, & it works so nice.
the rest of you girls.....please join in???

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julz, lots of (((hugs))) to you!!!
sounds like you've got you're hands full
hope things work out before the wedding
when you leaving for India??

girls, the baby shower was a HUGE success
my friend couldn't stop saying thank you & I made a nappy cake for her....was so chuffed coz it looked really cool
we played baby bingo & I made lil card for all the guests to write a message for the baby & for the mommy & at the back what their prezzie was.....my friend LOVED it
so now it's the big wait.....she's booked for an c-section on the 31st of march....which obviously I'm not to keen on, but it's her decision....but I'm hoping she comes a bit early so mommy can push....does that make me a bad friend???
o well, just VERY excited for lil Lea (snap nel) to be born!!!!
can finally have a new born baby in my arms again.....oooohhhhh, cant wait!!!

sowee girls, dh (not darling husband) D!$k head just walked in

love you all
xxx

Im sure we will get them tomorrow cause the last time we did the tests we got the results same day unless they will do something different.

Yep super excited about the party Dh wants to hire a jumping castle im like babe its a family thing he said he does not care.

Yoza- all the best for tomorrow! Will they give you results on the same day? Glad you got Buhle's cake ordered, can't believe it's birthday time almost!

Hello ladies

Lwasi: yay on Amu your prince charming is doing so well. You must be one happy relieved mama. thank you for he well wishes for tomorrow. Im also praying that all is well.

Julz: My take is that weddings plus family equals drama. So happy you got the all clear form the dr.

Helen: big hug to you

Lelani: Hi doll sounds like all ih well on the home front. Im so pround of chanel she is doing so well and ajdusted to the move and new school well done my friend.

Vix: Hope you can keep up the pressies with C. Oh I do hope that the colic is getting better. I reckon that E is daddy of the year.

Enigma: Hi my dear how is Zaid doing.

Ara: where are you and how is Ethan.

Lisha: poor shrey so cute pointing where the is is at.

Ally: all the best on the nomination hope you win cause you have worked really hard

Pfairy: I still cannot believe that you guys are leaving and we never got a chance to meet you but i do wish you all the best.

AFM: nothing much but that we seeing the audiologist at 8am tomorrow. And next week an ENT specialist looks like siba might have enlarged adenoids and he has all the symptoms but will hear what the specialist says. The pead sent me an email saying i should book him in after numerous converstions we had. As for buhle o booked a birthday cake for her from leigh. bless her she has agreed and yet it was suppose to be her weekend of. Other than that Dh is being so sweet im not sure why but im loving the attention. I went to the gym yesterday did a step and tone class and my body in eina and today im doing a pole dancing class and the nice thing it a womens gym only i just love that

Lwasi- I'm so freakin chuffed with Amo and his development and woooo hoooo for not needing the shunt! But I can totally understand why they might not want to take it out, rather keep his development at a good rate! And wooooooooooooooo hoooooooooooooo for washington, I'm so excited for you!

I think the colic is subsiding actually! It seems to be only about 2hrs a day if at all and now I seem to be able to stop the crying rather than that relentless screaming. About time too because they'll be 3m end of Feb.

Ally- so can I like nominate you aswell?

Nicole how's the driving coming along?

Simone looks like u had a lovely V-day, as for Miss Addy I dont even know where to begin she is so smart Simone ur truly blessed

Lelanie you surely are one proud mommy, u and Chanel are close no wonder you miss her so much when she's gone.

I hope I havent missed any one, with regards to the preparation we are still waiting for the announcement to be made officially on the intranet before we can proceed so we have been prohibited to go ahead before that.

Hi ladies,

Yoza happy belated birthday my friend, and Im so glad that the kids are bonding so well, I loved your V-day pressie your hubby is a gem, I tell u...I am also convinced re Siba and multiple languages, good luck for tomorrow am so glad that ur not stressing

Nelria hows the admin going my love, house and everything? and the kids? are they on the mend? congrats on Lea being off the nappy

Helen hows Nina? I hope she is Ok, and Lucky, hgows the paw?

Mandy all the best with Cam's biting, Amo does it sometimes, and I am sending u all the baby dust...glad that u fixed things with DH by speaking out

Vix ho many times does one vote on your competition? your boys imprits are lovely what a great idea, hope the colic goes away eventually but I must say am so proud of you for holding up with the boys with such poise even though its as difficult as we all are witnessing (hugs)

Juls u cracked me up when u said u know that your helper was going through a lot but YOU were also going through a lot, I just laughed so much, so glad that the doc gave an ALL CLEAR

Ally congrats on the mag, may it bring u lots of exposure and moola

and about the nomination, u deserve it my friend and I will certainly vote for you not because your my friend but because its yours on MERIT, dont even question that about yourself

PFairy, I hope ur Aussie trip will bring you light on the move and help you make an informed decision, good luck my friend

Naeema I didnt get to read your post but from what the ladies have said in response I gathered that ur one brave woman, strong indeed and have been through a lot, I just pray that you get to have custody of your children cos as Vix said no child deserves to be without its mother...strongs to you my friend

Lisha looks like you had fun in Joburg, well you desrve it you had been looking forward to going to that concert for a long time. Glad that you had fun and got to meet some of the girls while still here

Angelique about stuttering I kinda have the same problem with AMo, he kinda gets stuck on the first word like: mama kkkkkkkkkkupa apule (mom can I please have an apple), but he wont say it one by one but the word will be prolonged cos he gets stuck on the first sylable...am also stressing a bit

AFM: I underwent thorough tests last week, my tummy was giving m trouble so the surgeon concluded that I had nothing, so my colleague said maybe I was stressing about the Washington move, which kinda explained it

Amo is great he is now going to daycare, he counts till 50, he can sing a lot of songs he catches fast, part of the reason I sent him to daycare was that I didnt know what to teach him anymore, he is grown up so much will load pics soon. We went for his yearly Nuero scan and assessment and his doc said before we even went for the CT scan that it looks as if Amo doesnt need the shunt anymore, like the way he interacts says his veins may have been opened somehow, however if thats the case we may have to wait till he reaches the 5yr mark so that his development up until that stage is not interrupted.