Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Vix as everybody else says...rest!

Nicole...thinking about you and all everybody is going through.

What was on FB that you deleted Ally?

Helen sorry you are so confused about your options. Lelani had c-sec and natural, so she's a good source of info. I have a friend that was also quite tiny and she had a 5kg baby naturally with no damage! She said he helped the birthing process. I also know a not so good natural birth stroy. Unfortunately its always going to be a gamble with natural. Hope at your next visit gynae can assist you in reaching a decision. Maybe chat to a doula or a midwife or that hypnobirthing lady about what they think your chances are for a successful natural birth?

Nicole, my love, Im truly sorry! Sorry you are going through something tough! We are here for you ! and about your brother and family, Im also so sorry for you. Thank goodness you are there for your SIL emotionally. Im sure she must feel lost and hopeless, and your poor little nephew.. and Im sure you are worried about your bother being missing. I will pray for you guys.

Sorry Helen - theres nothing like pressure from me!! but thanks for your feedback. My personal take on your decision is that only you can feel inside what you need to do and none of our opinions matter.. however, when i cant decide it helps to hear what others do, soooooooo what I would probably do is, wait for the next appointment and if you feel up for the challenge - GO FOR NATURAL, however, if you are feeling like you are FINISHED and dont want to face natural, go for caesarian. I can honestly say that I wanted natural for my first and cameron went into distress so I had to go c-sec, and I was so fearful of c-sec. The c-sec , FOR ME, was great, it was controlled and I felt that my baby and I were safe and secure. The doctors were so great and soon i had my little baby in my arms and i had hardly any problems after. the two weeks rest after helped me to recover ( not just from the op, but from the pregnancy and all the anxiety etc) so whatever you decide, I wish you luck sweatheart!

AFM - cameron is not eating his supper that well at the mo, but i know its just a phase so it is what it is and im not getting upset, so this morning I walk into his room to fetch him from his cot and he says TOAST! ha ha ha ha! funny, he was starving! He ate toast and banana and then when we got to school he said CRISPIES!! hee hee, he makes me laugh! maybe he will eat his supper tonight now!

Vix - headaches, talking to the toilet and all this pain! lifes just not fair!Angel, glad you and Elwyn are in this together and taking it easy..Hope you are okay today, just one hour at a time and take it easy like you did yesterday - short bursts!!

okay, chat later honeys!

Hi ladies.

Ja, I have to be more secretive. I get too excited and I become naive thinking that everyone will just be happy for me. I actually already got such mean comments from some people.

Anyway, I have quite a bit to do today. I thought I must take advantage of Halloween being around the corner so I want to see if I can make some tombstone cupcakes. I need to bake the nautical cookies and then do my hair etc. for tonight's function.

I can't decide if I must just straighten my hair or if I must curl it slightly so it's more wavey. Any suggestions?

Hi ladies

Just quick pop in - very busy at work today & tomorrow.

Helen glad all is well with you & the baba.

Vix just keep resting or like you say do things in short bursts.


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AFM we had a decent night but Shrey woke up with a rash on one side of his face under the eye and on the other side on his neck. It just resembles raised bumps - not red though. Gave him Allergex and within an hour it went down and he didn't seem itchy anymore. Mil says it didn't come up again either. A bit stressed that it could be chicken pox (initially I was thinking measels). No fever either so hopefully just a insect bite or something.

Chat later ladies. Loads to do today.

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Hello Ladies.

Helen glad you and baby are doing well, you really do have a tough decision to make, but hopefully the doc will guide you to the right direction that is best for both you and baby. I cant wait for the day you post here and let us know what the baby's sex is

Vix shame your poor body is really taking strain, im glad you got some rest yesterday and that you will put your feet up today again and relax!! Its best for both you and those precious babies. How is C with your tummy, does he acknowlege it?

Ally the other ladies are right, you going to have to start keeping secreats now, you are a wanted lady in the foodie industry now

K only went to sleep after nine last night and then DH and I watched the perfect getaway, was quite a freaky thriller type of movie.


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okay thats my sob story over and done with.

Hope you lovely ladies have a wonderful day.

It is pouring with rain here, looks like the beginning of floods.