PAMPERS JULY 2010

Ashbabe: At least he is willing to try and he realises that he can do more yeah for that. It's a start. I'll hold thumbs

Sindy i didnt see your post til i checked my mails and then saw it was on.
awe man, how sweet is that and yes i am also struggeling now if i can sleep at 7 i sure would be

ok well my hubby has apologised and said that he realizes that he does have a problem etc and will be trying to make more effort LOL like i said i dont expect him to be master chef, beans on toast would suit just fine, its the thought that counts.

well ladies hope u all have a great weekend

Hi Ladies,

Been so busy this week, it drives me crazy

Mjabu: Keep your man in the loop so that he knows what's going on that way he'll know where he can help and how to support you. You're in my prayers and I'm sure all will be fine, just follow your gynea's instructions to the T.

Ashbabe & Vickyvdw: I am fortunately blessed with a husband that will cook me supper and make me a cup of coffee without asking, if I fall asleep on the couch during Binnelanders and this seems to be happening a lot (again) lately. He'll wake me up with supper it's no gourmet meal sometimes toasted sandwiches or Mince Mate or he would have gone out and bought some McDonalds, and he always gets me a Cornetto McFlurry he knows it's my fav. He is a doll. So no, I don’t think you are unreasonable, if one man can do it the rest can do it to, they need to be more considerate of you and your relationship.

Newbie: Maybe your class will lighten up as it goes on. Our (Patty and I are in the same class) class is very relaxed and the people are friendly and make jokes, so it is really enjoyable, the comments that come from the people usually keeps me laughing for days after the class ended.

Patty: have you now settled in with the afterthoughts of the video or you still traumatised? Hope you are doing well.

Well ladies I'm leaving at 15:00 I'm going on a "go slow" till then, I'm exhausted. Hope you all have a wonderful weekend and hopefully an uneventful one

vickyvdw for some reason i also feel the same that baby will arriver earlier, i am also reading up on all info i can about premmies etc.
i am also worried that something is wrong, i mean i know i am being paranoid when i was preg with chloe i didnt feel like this but i also didnt know what to expect - now 5years later and peoples horror stories i am just being paranoid as well.

well i just think that its disgusting that the man couldnt even get bread for toast for supper? i mean who does that?
but anwyays we have a nice long weekend ahead of us and i am sure its gonna be fun (not)
i am moving bedrooms around anyways and getting chloe room sorted and the chest of draws etc that i bought with all babies stuff.

well i hope u all have a great day

ashbabe.. yes my man is like yours in a lot of ways.. also very lazy to get up and make something. very fustrating cos they will see how we are battling and will not bother to help or to ask how we are.My husband was also on my nerves last nite..and i also felt like i could just burst into tears.. he has got flu so is feeling miserable and then takes it out on me. not fair...

mjabu- im so sorry to hear you not well. go to gynae and just follow whatever they tell you and take your meds.. im sure all will be fine. maybe do some research over the internet... they say if you know what youre in for it makes it easier to cope with.i know that with diabetes the babies apparently are big at birth. with my son they had to check him and me when he was born cos he was 4.025 kgs, so they thought i might have untreated diabetes but luckilly we were both clear.

newbie- im not going to any classes.. 3rd baby so i think i should know enough.. lol.. but i have also heard from a friend that ppl get very shy when it comes to talking about all of these things.. act as though they are virgins im very open when it comes to talking about such things.. but my husband isnt really the same.. he believes these things are personal and private... so maybe the other ppl in your group have the same feelings on this topic.

i have been feeling extremely uneasy the last 3 days or so .. experiencing very very bad cramps( bh) i think it is anyways , i never really experienced this with my other two. not so sore anyway.. and nothing has been helping eventually took panado the other night to try get some relief. it didnt go away but atleast helped about 1/10th of the pains. i think im freaking out my husband as i told him that i want my bag packed this weekend.. maybe im being paranoid.. i dunno. but i have this need to make sure that certain things are done if i dont get to it , it makes me feel very scared and uncertain.
anyone else feeling remotely anxious.... i know it is stil along wait.. but when i sit and think about that i will be 37 wks and 6days ( if doctor gives go ahead) when little one is born.. it means 10 weeks left . and anything can happpen in 10 weeks. i find myself reading up on articles of premature babies and their successes and what to expect..

havent been sleeping well either so i think this plays a role , very emotional- just feel as though im not thinking straight and im normally a person that analyses everything and works out a plan before getting panicky .
sorry to be going off like this , just dont really have much supports that i can talk to...

morning ladies

mjabu i have heard that this is very common during pregnancy, i have a book up on it but best u get all teh advise and care from teh gp and gyne, shame man.
just try not stress about it i know its hard but u also need to tell ure man! U cant keep things bottled up.

ladies, plse correct me if i am wrong and plse just dont agree with me i would like to know if i a wrong here

Hubby and i for the past 2days have been very quiet with each other, he stressed and the last thing i want either is stress so we just leave each other and when we both come around then its fine.
he NEVER EVER COOKS, not fried egg, not toast NOTHING, so he was very snappy with me yesterday so i thought ok, i am gonna see what he will do if i dont cook supper (i stopped and bought chloe some food on my way home so she was sorted) but not us.
Now i get home after fectching chloe etc bath her etc and he gets home and all chores etc done, so i DIDNT COOK last night.
i was so cold so i went to bath and get into my pj's this is all at about 7ish!
he gets home, doesnt greet, doesnt ask whats for supper (as he can see i havent cooked) doesnt ask nothing and so he goes to have a bath! anyways its now about 7.30 and i am getting chloe ready for bed...
the man, would rather go to bed hungry then cook us a fried egg on toast or something, now there was no bread, so i could of gone to get bread but i thought why must i ALWAYS do this! he didnt even offer to get bread so we can have toast and beans or egg or something, so i left it - he didnt say anything to me.
i cant believe that the man would rather go to bed STARVING then to quickly go and get bread or whatever!!!
I am so angry
so this morning i ask, when i have this baby and i dont cook supper a few night, are we all gonna go to bed hungry??? he ignores me!!!
I am so disspointed and disgusted that i can even just burst into tears.
he doesnt even ask me how i am when i am in the room, i mean what happened if i was not well or soemthing??? then he doesnt even offer to make soemthing???
R your men like this????

i cant believe this man and its just mad me so ANGRY and now its friday and i have to spend a weekend at home with this guy!!!

HELP!