January 2010 mommies

yes my BF and i are currently living apart. what has that got to do with anything? We are working on our relationship and working on what we feel needs to be fixed.

We all prefer to tell the truth and your right there is nothing wrong with that, but what you are doing is not telling the truth your are trying to see if you can pick a fight and also how rude and insulting you can get.

Oh and i need to thank you. if it wasn't for your fit on Friday i would never have come across BLW and i would have never tried it. So thank you very much for that.

Christelle wrote:

I don't feel free to post on here anymore as the replies are usually "well, my first child blah blah blah, so you are stupid if you worry about it"

I'm sorry if anyone feels that i have discount the concerns because i already have a child, what works for one child does not always work for another. if any one ask for advice or help, i will always help were i can. what they do wiht the information i give is up to them. yes i use a lot of the information i got from trying things with my first child. yes im lucky enough to have more than 1. but never once have i said or indicated that any moms concerns over a child is stupid.

Elsa - grow up - i hope you now feel a bit better after insulting me. yes to you i might be just out of Adolescence but to me you might still be stuck there, your reactions to ppl indicates that. no one tells you how to raise your child you decide for yourself.

Good morning,

Have to agree with Elsa and Juanita. It is just not the same anymore. When we started chatting we were all preggies and it was great that it continued throughout our pregnancies and even endured the endless silences of maternity leave Actually made good friends on here and received some sound advice.

It is not so much about change as it is about the new moms taking over. So you have a child already, does not mean you can just discount my concerns about mine. Now I just keep my concerns to myself.

I don't feel free to post on here anymore as the replies are usually "well, my first child blah blah blah, so you are stupid if you worry about it"

Sorrel, your post are not ignored, it's just that you come on here once every couple of weeks and then post these random posts. I usually don't know if I should reply as I don't know when you will read it, or even if you are going to read it.

I just don't know.

Sorrel

why dont you have a profile pic on? or pics of your kids?

im not going anywhere and if i end up chatting to myself everyday - then im also fine with that... anyone who wants to chat, i will make them feel welcome...

So if you guys dont want anybody else to join your group then why do you chat on here. Then you can chat on facebook or via e-mail.

Dont get me wrong im not being nasty, it just a suggestion.

I really thought it was a place we people with children of the same age can come chat. Share experiences, joys, sadness, advise etc. But clearly I was wrong and that is probably the reason why some of my post got ignore my some people.

Guess I was never part of the "group".

Gee thanks guys!

Really hope you enjoy your babies and that they will stay healthy for many year to come.