Pregnancy after D&C

Good Morning lovely ladies!!

Sorry for being MIA! Been a hectic 2 days! At least AF is packing her ugly bags! So BD marathon will probably start tomorrw or Monday latest! If SMEP fails me again this cycle then I'm going to try those soy thingies 3rd cycle and if THAT fails I'm off to the gynea! So far the POA is working for me! Hehe!

Hope you all have an excellent weekend!!


xxx

Hi everybody,

Debbie and Justine so so sorry for your loss, as all the ladies have said it takes someone who has been there to help you through the heartache, we know you can be perfectly normal one minute and bawling your eyes out the next, its perfectly Normal. Sending you lots of Prayers and Big Big Virtual hugs and don't be afraid to rant!

To everybody else HELLO!

Have an awesome weekend!

I sit here thinking...after what Justine said (becoming one of the statistics)...that wow have I also become one...

Here is what I mean by that:

I have been a statistic of a healty pregnancy, of having cysts, of having a laparoscopy, having a MC, having a D & C and now being part of TTC.

What us women doesn't go through every day!!!

HI Justine,

I am defineatly at the same space you are at right now, Very up & down have kept myself very busy this week with work and to be honest and dreading this weekend when it quietens down.

It does seem that every1 you speak to has had a MC , dont know if they are being diagnosed differently to the "old days" or the hormones in food or what but it is very common , not that it makes it any easier....

We didnt tell very many ppl cos of our Jul MC , so a lot of the time this week I wished I could just press pause of life and my clients wold stop phoning and I didnt have to put a smile on my face. Maybe this weekend is what I need , think I am confused at the moment..

Thanks for all the support it means alot to me to be able to share with ppl who have been there.

D

Justine, im so so sorry for your loss. There is not much more I can add to what the other girls have said but just know that we will be here for you. Big big hugs!

Justine...just take it as it comes...if you want to cry, cry. If you feel like your old self and laugh and joke, do it. It will happen. This is still very fresh...and with time...you will see that the sadness isn't that much anymore. For me, I thought the big things would trigger me...like seeing a baby or another pregnant woman...you know what got to me...when I got invited to a baby shower....so don't label yourself...just let things happen...I hope I make sense

Thanks Lucy,
its very strange for me at the moment. some hours i feel like my old self. i can laugh and think normally about work and stuff... other hours im a complete basket case. i colleague just passed my desk and asked me where i've been this week and i completely broke down. not very professional, i know. now, an hour later im feeling normal again. this isnt very easy to handle, seriously, im used being in control. *sigh* i guess its like you say "life will never be the same".