hi ladies
well that sharp pain is still there. and it's really bad when he moves around. (so yes, I finally did feel him moving!)
it's pain right down near my pubic bone. I really think he is trying his best to start descending! shame maybe there isnt much space?! gosh i dunno how he's suppose to still grow for another 5 weeks (maybe longer) and gain like another kilo.
the diarrhoea has stopped and i havent been having any sore BH. it's just very sore when he moves around - like VERY sore?!
I really dunno what he is up to but I am not worried about an early labour...
Joli DH leaves for Germany on Friday - I really hope Matt just stays in until DH gets back. Then I am more than happy for him to come
Ladies I feel a bit bad...its our wedding anniversary today and we agreed no gifts. just a card and dinner. and I also let DH off the valentine's day thing since it's so close to our anniversary and his birthday so we dont celebrate it.
so this morning i was up early so I baked him cookies and made coffee and let him sleep until 10, then took everything upstairs to him and gave him his card.
I knew he wanted to buy me flowers so I knew I wouldnt have those as soon as waking up. but I expected my card...
well he had nothing! then he went to the shops to buy the flowers and some other things we needed. no offence - but the flowers are so crap and half dead!! Now I know my DH is really not the most observant person so he probably didnt notice the flowers weren't ok. and he has bad taste in choosing flowers to begin with! and I know it's the thought that counts - but I can see he hardly put thought into it and probably just took the first ones he saw.
he also didnt get me a card!! AND last weekend he said we'd be intimate this weekend...and we werent.
so I confronted him and asked where my card was and he just looked at me...so I explained that I let him off the hook for Valentine's day so that he can make today special...so NOW he's gone to buy a card?! kind of defeats the purpose...
and I also confronted him about the intimacy (yet again...) and turns out he doesnt feel 'confident' at the moment in himself performance wise, work wise etc etc. so ya...now I feel guilty for kind of going on and on at how he doesnt please me etc.
ok I just had to get that off my chest!
cath what time do u go in tomorrow????
oh yes I think tomorrow I will take pics of the nursery!!!!! it is complete!!!!!
I have to say - DH really made an effort putting the crib together (it was a nightmare and not easy) and to put up the last hooks for pictures etc. and he actually helped choose some newborn babygrows since I realised I had none. so there has been a slight improvement there! plus we spent about 45 minutes this morning talking about Matthieu, what to expect, how to change a nappy, how often he needs to eat etc.