TRYING FOR 2015 BABY

Hi ladies

Don't want to spoil anyone's day with my news but I want to tell it and get it out of the way. The curse of the pregnancy test has struck again.

I took the pregnancy test this morning, came up negative. Told hubby that 'It's just still a bit too early to get a BFP.' Half hour later, AF arrives.

I'll be absent for a while. Thanks to each and every one of you who have supported me and showered me with love and hope. I truly appreciate it. I'm hoping that each of you get a BFP soon.

Going to curl up in a ball and watch the pieces of my broken heart shrivel and die.

@ Anzel, your husband has the same sperm morphology as mine 2L>3%, the Urologist explained to me that on a smaller scale it means that in 100 sperm only 2 have the correct shape

But seeing that there are millions of sperm it shouldn't be a big problem. He has to cut back on smoking, wear boxers, eat healthily, exercise and take the Sperm-I-Prove. Hopefully all of that will help.

Going to read up on what I can do to help promote healthy follicles as well as taking the Fertomid. I think we will get our BFP before the 4 month prescription has been filled

@ Lillyr, I hear you, ttc is very stressful and I think it is quite a bit for the mind, stressing over charts, temps, symptom spotting etc and our bodies having to bd according to a schedule But you must do whatever you think is right and maybe taking a break is all what you may need

@ Anzel, hmm I don't like the idea of getting false pregnancy symptoms well more than usual anyway. Are they going to check that the follicles are maturing at any stage and is a level 26 Progesterone good? Mine was low but the Gynae said that they took the blood at the wrong time, I think it was CD28 about 2 days before AF was due. Om my word I have seen your Summer temperatures and it is sizzling hot! You will have to stay indoors and wear as little as possible

@ Babydream, my cycles were also never the same but my longest been 33 days and the Gynae didn't seem to like that. I am still going to chart and temp but we don't have a fertile window or bd'ing schedule Has your husband or yourself been for any other fertility tests? If so take the results with you for the appointment. Holding thumbs that you will be getting good news. "mommy and daddy to be" i like that!!

That is an awesome pic Babydreaming!

LOVE IT!!

xx

Hi ladies,

Hope you are well.

@Morgan - breath hun! It seems to me there are more positives than negatives. Try to stay calm. I really believe you are going to get that bfp Friday. And imagine if its twin!! How awesome!

@P4M1 - When are you planning to test? Dont lose hope yet!

@Jay-Bee - Eish so you have to wait until next cycle then hey? That sucks and I'm sure it feels like 100 years away. GL hun, really hope it works for you! I'm wondering what she is going to find, my cycles the past 6 months have been 28, 30, 33, 35, 27 & 27. Thank you for that Sperm-I-Prove hint and the price is not bad at all, might just get some for hubby as well. Are you going to take a break this month or still continue BDing?

@Lillyr - its not over until the AF bitch shows her face. Oh hun, I know what you mean TTC takes away all my attention, it really is the only thing I am focused on at the moment. If you have exam time then maybe you should finish that first, you might unconsciously stressing out it. But hey hun if you feel you still want to try then go for it, we might never know when the time is right - I hope that makes sense. Hugs hun, you will know what to do in the end!

Hope everyone else is good! Enjoy your day - weekend is almost here!!

Hi, girls

@Morgan, take heart, my dear! It's normal to be anxious, but try to be calm and just enjoy the process. I know it's easy for me to say, seeing that I also had a melt down on Sunday after I heard that my best friend was pregnant. Yet, I know that you are a strong woman and you can overcome anything. Just put your faith in God and His perfect timing for you and hubby. Baby will come. In His time. Holding thumbs for a quick bfp and twin heartbeats. I wanted to tell you about a dream I had the other night. I dreamt I had twin girls and I was breastfeeding them together and then bathing them. I remember the one's face. Bright blue eyes like hubby and strawberry blonde curls like mommy. I can still smell them, feel them breastfeeding, feel the one baby fart against my arm while I was breastfeeding them. It felt so real. I'm also hoping for twins. God has a plan. I know it. And you will be ok. I'm holding thumbs for your BFP soon!

@Jay-bee - This is my first round on Fertomid, don't know why my dosage was so high. They say the higher the dosage, the higher the likelihood for twins?? Dunno! I take mine from CD 3 to CD 7, to ensure earlier ovulation. No progesterone tests yet, as my last progesterone levels at CD 21 was 26. I hate playing the waiting game. And with Fertomid, you get loads of pregnancy symptoms, which can give you false hope. I'm thus ignoring they symptoms and waiting till next weekend to see what happens. If not this month, then hopefully next month. I stay in hot Upington, and would have preferred not to carry twins in our summer months, but beggers can't be choosers, I suppose. I'll just stay indoors where it is nice and cool till the summer is over!

I HATE the TWW!! I want it to be over already so that I can either know what's happening, or start a new cycle over again. Bleh!

@Morgan- thats more like it. it will all be well dear, friday is just around he corner.

@P4M1- I am CD 27 of unknown cycle length. I feel a bit crampy still, so i think AF will be here later today or tomorrow. I am not even tempted to test, just taking each day as it comes. I am too busy at work as well, kinda makes me feel its not the right time to TTC but will see, if AF shows face this month, i will pause abit and start again in JUne, I want to clear off the exam time, i also have a lot of catching up to and TTC is just taking up most of my time-its all i think about:(

love you lots ladies...*bady dust to you all*