TRYING FOR 2015 BABY

@Jay-Bee01 - Sounds good hun! FX for you! How many dpo are you?

I am from Jhb.

@lillyr - I like ClearBlu too. I bought a digital one a couple of weeks ago and if I get my bfp one day I will use that one to show hubby, otherwise I used Clicks home brands too. Shame girl, dont lose hope yet, there is still a possibility. It aint over 'til AF shows.

I think I'm going to be out this cycle too, my fertile window is from 25 Feb to 3 Mar according to my apps, but I am not going to be with my hubs from the 26 Feb to 1 Mar. Really sucks and already disheartened.

@ Lillyr, I use the Clicks house brands as well I hear you, the not knowing if one is pregnant or not drives me crazy as well. I try not to keep any spare HPT at home as I will go through all of them, lol. Symptoms spotting today like crazy as have slight pulling in ovaries and boobies are very sensitive.

@ Ladies, anyone in the Cape Town area or mostly from Jhb? I think P4M1 might be in Cpt but not sure

@babydreaming- i used clearBlu yesterday. then today*hides* , i quickly went to clicks and bought their in house brand and tested..LOL. i feel so right now cos it was BFN(duh what was i expecting?)..LOL. AF is due on FRIDAY. I will get over whatever it is that's getting me so crazy today

@Morgan - Exactly, I hate it when people especially family keeps asking so when is the baby coming, like I said earlier, sometimes I wish I could just punch the in the face and say shut up! Some people really just dont understand the frustration we go through.

But you know what ladies we get stronger every single day going through it!

@lillyr - Maybe wait until tomorrow. When is AF due? And what tests are you using?

@Anzel - We've been trying since April 2014, its not easy, getting one bfn after the other is heartbreaking. But like you said maybe a Dec baby. GL hun! And lost of baby dust to you!!

You see, that's the thing. SO many people believe that ttc is as simple as falling off a bike. I can't tell you how harassed I feel at times when people (who in my honest opinion) have NO say in when we should have kids, keeps on ASKING, ASKING, ASKING when the kids are coming.

I've been thinking that the next time they ask I'm going to say 'As soon as the Blue Fairy pays us a visit, we'll simply wish for a baby.' and see what their reaction is.

Again, it's why I'm glad I can come on here and vent at times because to keep that frustration bottled up will seriously make me do / say something that I'll (maybe) regret later.

Anzel - Believe me when I say that I know the frustration.

lillyr - thanks a lot!!

Thanks HVDB!!! Hope we'll all be on there soon!!


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@MOrgan, I agree too, I did talk to my sister that went for the same treatment as I and at the same FS, she has two beautiful boys, but I think she forgot what it was like when they were TTCíng, I think the moment you hold the bundle of joy all the heartache of getting there is completely forgotten so I don't blame her.

Chatting here and reading all the stories and not to talk about the symptom spotting... really made things easier during the tww.

I will start a forum for Due Sept/Oct/Nov... and carry on chatting there, I really really do hope that I will see you guys there very very soon!