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10 years 10 months ago #269705 by Chanti
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@Nikita - I have never heard of Mannatech? Sure hoping this could be a triphasic pattern and something good happening! Holding thumbs for u :)

@Jooste - I agree on the lindt and wine! 42days is long!!!

Afm, getting my usual pre-AF spotting so it should arrive on the weekend. My menstrual cup arrived this week so im also going to try that! Sorry if tmi!!! Im trying to stay away from as many chemicals as possible!



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Me: 24
DH:25

April 2015: Trying for #1
November 2015: Diagnosed with Stage 4 Endometriosis. Laparascopy to remove chocolate cyst and most of endo. Tubes
blocked and referred for IVF... Visanne prescribed.
Oct 2016 - IVF#1 - BFN
March 2017 - FET - BFN
April 2017 - Surprise BFP!
June 17 -Late M/C 13w4
Aug 17 - Chemical pregnancy M/C 5 weeks
Nov 17- BFP on my birthday! 13DPO BETA 201

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10 years 10 months ago #269703 by Nikita87
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@Jooste- Yours might be different, I really hope so. Or maybe you will have a surprise by then???

I normally have a temp dip around CD 9 / 10 and I have all the stages of the CM around then, but this month I had the dip on CD 8 / 9 and also the CM but had some clear CM on CD 10. My pattern might be slightly out. I also compare my charts and before pregnancy I also had another dip after O. So we will just wait and see, we did enough BDíng before and after O so should be covered. I never new when I Ovulated, that is why I started tempting and I could actually pinpoint it, it is amazing :laugh:

Me: 31
DH: 35
Married since: 2011

DH - SA done - all is well
Me - Stage 1 Endo

TTC #1
BFP - 6 September'15
Miscarriage @ 7w1d - 4 October'15

BFP - 17 September'16
Baby Boy born via C-Section - May'17

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10 years 10 months ago #269700 by joo~ste
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Nikita
Oh no! I will need some wine and Lindt chocolate to be able to handle a 52 day cycle!!! :S :dry:
Never in my life was my cycle longer than 32 days! It will be pure torture.
Currently only CD29....... :pinch:

Why would you have a temp drop today (are you thinking it might be a triphasic patern??) - Or maybe you are only truly OV'ing now?? Do you usually OV so early on in your cycles (CD8 - 9)?

Me:40/DH:39
TTC#1 =3yr2m
TTC#2 =3m
TTC#3 =2yr

Journey started: May 2009 (Gr II Endo)
Total cycles TTC: 64
Clomid/Femara/Inject cycles: 20
IUI: 2
IVF: 1
Lap/Hyst: 4
Miomect: 1
Polipect: 1
D&E: 2
Missed MC: 2
Chem Pg: 4

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10 years 10 months ago #269698 by Nikita87
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Hi Ladies

@Jooste - I had to wait 52 days AF to arrive :S I was not impressed

@Chanti - Have you ever heard of Mannatech? If not let me know

@Aladwi - My new response to people is..... my husband has been fixed :pinch: :blush: :huh: :ohmy:
They just don't seem to get the point you know, so now that statement shuts them up

My friend who recently had a baby keeps on telling me that we should wait and enjoy our time, because when you have a baby you have no time. Keep in mind that she is aware of my situation. People just make me mad really :silly:

AFM - I am on CD16 and had a temp drop this morning. Ovulated around CD8 and 9 (that is what my temp indicated) will see what happens. :rock:

How is everyone else doing today?

Me: 31
DH: 35
Married since: 2011

DH - SA done - all is well
Me - Stage 1 Endo

TTC #1
BFP - 6 September'15
Miscarriage @ 7w1d - 4 October'15

BFP - 17 September'16
Baby Boy born via C-Section - May'17
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10 years 10 months ago #269694 by joo~ste
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Chanti
I've been told that after a D & E AF can arrive anything from between 28 to 42 days! (Yikes....hope I do not need to wait for 42 days!). :blink:

Me:40/DH:39
TTC#1 =3yr2m
TTC#2 =3m
TTC#3 =2yr

Journey started: May 2009 (Gr II Endo)
Total cycles TTC: 64
Clomid/Femara/Inject cycles: 20
IUI: 2
IVF: 1
Lap/Hyst: 4
Miomect: 1
Polipect: 1
D&E: 2
Missed MC: 2
Chem Pg: 4

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10 years 10 months ago #269676 by Chanti
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@Aladwi - I love that response :cheer: think I'm going to give it a bash :woohoo: How long have you been ttc?

Me: 24
DH:25

April 2015: Trying for #1
November 2015: Diagnosed with Stage 4 Endometriosis. Laparascopy to remove chocolate cyst and most of endo. Tubes
blocked and referred for IVF... Visanne prescribed.
Oct 2016 - IVF#1 - BFN
March 2017 - FET - BFN
April 2017 - Surprise BFP!
June 17 -Late M/C 13w4
Aug 17 - Chemical pregnancy M/C 5 weeks
Nov 17- BFP on my birthday! 13DPO BETA 201
The following user(s) said Thank You: Aladwi

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10 years 10 months ago #269675 by Aladwi
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Chanti wrote: @Aladwi - I have actually read that happening to ladies with a BFP so I'm really hoping this could be it for you :) You can add smiley faces at the top of your reply box! We have quite a few people that know now about our ttc as I just got tired of hiding the fact that we are ttc for a while now. The worst is when people ask when babies are on the cards and instead of telling them you rather say "Maybe next year" and then they reply, well what's the rush anyway!! That seems to hurt the most as it almost seems like kids aren't so important to them when in fact I am so desperately trying to have one. When someone hears we have been trying for a while and having a few problems they also love saying " It's okay, don't stress it will happen". For some reason that statement infuriates me and I want to scream at them that I'm tired of hearing that as clearly everyone is wrong because there IS something wrong with me.

We all need to vent at some point, so you are welcome to at any time!

I've done some reading up on tips for a response too. For years I've just shrugged it off, but now the struggle is more real and I'm feeling a bit more sensitive on the subject. My standard response from now on will be with a smile : Don't worry, when the baby's on the way, we will be sure to inform those who need to know. :woohoo: :oops:

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