TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Hi ladies!

Hayley, enjoy your slow cooker I love those things, dont have one but use my pressure cooker sooo much, especially in winter Maybe make yourself a yummy chicken curry in it to fight the cold and flu xxx

Taryn, had a look at your chart again, so mayby you did o on CD17. That would explain the positive OPK. You will only know at the end of your cycle for sure. My one cycle did a similar pattern an FF pinned it at the later date. I took the chart with me to my gynae and she said I def O on the first big spike and confirmed it on the follicle scan. Just keep bding at least every 2nd night till you know for sure that fertile period is passed. FX!!

Meags, wouldve looooved to join the party on the 10th but prob only coming back from Ballito the 10th or 11th. boohooo!

And about the situation with your hubby.. you just described about 90% of MEN on earth I know there are exceptions but most act that way. My hubby was exactly the same, but I must say he has kinda relaxed since I got preggies (all by himself) I agree with you about compromise... If he can have fun and enjoy himself he should atleast give you the opportunity aswell. Also for me the feeling is that once married we do things together as I dont like doing things without him anyway. Maybe today (before you kill him) after you have relaxed and calmed down and he has slept off his hangover just calmly approach the subject without him feeling you are attacking him. Explain to him how you feel and how you would like future things to be so you can enjoy yourself too. Hope you sort it out Marraige is HARD WORK!! lol

H-buzz, if you really cant wait then at 12DPO go for bloods but if you wait longer you will et good count, but if you need it for progesterone then maybe earlier is better? FX!!!

Laliek, been thinking about you!, Hope that cyst shrinks!

i think edenvale will be better for both hayley and myself

Meags - nope you definitely don't live in a fairytale world. Marriage means compromise and taking into consideration your husband or wife! And 3years is more than enough to know if it's the right person. And I am so for staying together before you get married (I am sooo glad my DH and I did it as well, and we've known each other since school so that's uhmmm, 12 years!!), that's the quickest way you sort each other out! I thought you may have just moved in since getting married and not used to each others quirks and habits, but now I fully agree with you! Good luck hun xxx

Edenvale or Midrand I think is also halfway! There's some nice places at both!

ok so we'll have to try meet half way.

Is edenvale half way? there is stoneridge mall.

Meags, Im in Joburg south, Hayley is in Benoni

ok for the meeting:

Meags
Laliek (after 11)
Hayley
Chris

I know Laliek and I live in the north by Northgate.

Hayley and Chris where do you stay?