Hi ladies I'm back from my photos
Shame Tracy are you feeling at all better?
Firefly, yay! and sorry

but yay now you can focus and there is no more uncertainty.
Where is Chris? When is her next scan?
Andy welcome back! seems like you have been gone FOREVER
Lizzy, how is the MS going?
Hayley, so sorry for your loss

It must be very difficult for you. I also hope you get your present next week
Hello everyone else!!
So...I have 2 things to update on...
We actually cant start TTC in September because we have not been on honeymoon yet and are planning to go in December. and I do not want to be drinking virgin cocktails in the maldives...so...I cant be pregnant before then.
second thing...we are immigrating to ivory coast. they have a high rate of malaria.
thousands (maybe even hundreds of thousands) of people die from malaria in ivory coast each year...and most are children.
Do I hold back another 3 years and not have kids because we're moving there? (I will be COMPLETELY MISERABLE if we have to do this) or do I just take as many precautions as possible with the baby?
I feel almost irresponsible having a baby knowing it's a malaria country but then also think you cant just put your life on hold.
I also wont be able to work there as they only speak french and their local languages...so I'm just wondering what the hell I'm going to do if I don't have a baby?