file Go ahead, puke on me :S

15 years 7 months ago - 15 years 7 months ago #161345 by Moomie Admin
Elamsmoms, choking is another story!:-)

Even though I have 1st Aid and CPR, I freak out about choking.

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15 years 7 months ago #161342 by Elamsmom
Deja...I must have missed that course/was absent on the day they taught how to "learn with time" cos I still get a mini heart attack whenever Elam chokes. She turns red immediately I'm normally half way to the hospital by the time she starts breathing :laugh:

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15 years 7 months ago #161311 by Moomie Admin
Charnenay, I must say I got better. I realised they are much stronger than we think and me breaking down is not helping the situation. So now I can handle a fever of 39.6 with a smile. I don't hyperventilate anymore if she throws up or has a cold. That's the great thing about motherhood- you really learn with time. :-)

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15 years 7 months ago #161263 by flowergirl
Deja - that's precisely where I would hopelessly fail as well.

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15 years 7 months ago #161249 by Moomie Admin
Girly, that's if blush, mascara and eyebrow pencil counts as make-up. :-)

Also, she has been on my hip for 19 months. She wants to be carried and be with me 24/7.

So, we both brush teeth, she has a blusher brush when I am busy, she sits in her bumbo seat when I straighten my hair or I do it the night before.
She takes out shoes for me to wear (although I hardly go with her choice :-)) and sometimes it's a struggle if she wants to be picked up and I have to get ready. Also, I just take my hair up in a bun if I don't have time.

I must say, I also pray constantly that my second baby will also be easy.

I also don't think it's a case of Nienke being really easy. I think it might be more my perspective on it. I find it easy. She cries and screams and throws tantrums, but I don't let it phase me.
It doesn't "stress" me so to speak.

For instance, if I cook, she hates not getting attention. So I'll make her "cook" as well. I put her on a chair, then give her flour, cooked rice, uncooked pasta, bowls etc and she makes a MASSIVE mess.

My hubby FREAKS out, my MOM would freak out but I let her do it because she enjoys it. I have to clean the whole kitchen if she's done but I don't really mind.

I admire how amazing you are, Girly, how you kept yourself composed throughout everything with Kaylee. When Nienke was six weeks old she had flu and they took x-rays of her chest by holding her by her arms. I was in a STATE. I cried so much I couldn't dress her. My dad actually got quite impatient with me over the phone cause I couldn't even talk. And I suppose if you are a mother, you need to be able to handle things like that, whereas I failed spectacularly.

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15 years 7 months ago #161247 by Elamsmom
Just to put it on record and dispel any misconceptions...just because some of us struggle with balancing motherhood & all other demands of life doesn't mean that we don't love our LO's and DH's to bits and that we don't think that they are the best things that have ever happened to us.

And to those who's LO's sleep thru at 8days and have helpful and loving DH's and never get annoyed with them, you are lucky so enjoy it.

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15 years 7 months ago #161236 by Joybaby
Replied by Joybaby on topic Re: Go ahead, puke on me :S
I always say if I sleep well at night then I can handle if its difficult in the day, but start off with only 4 or 6 hours (I love my sleep!) and I really struggle during the day. This is what made the early weeks so difficult for me.

I am lucky now that K wakes once or twice but only for milk and then she sleep again so I just lie next to her while she drinks and I dose.

Deja re putting on make up etc - there is where you have me envious. K loves attention, and loves to have me there with her while she's playing. If I walk into another room she gets unhappy so if I've brushed my teeth, put on new clothes and washed my face I'd say I've had successful me time!

I get envious of people who can leave their babies to play alone for 20minutes at a time while they get on with housework / other stuff.

But I always remind myself that every baby is different, and if you're used to an easy baby, the next one might be more tough on you than if youve started with a more needy baby.

But how they are is all part of their personalities forming, and I wouldn't wish my baby to be any other way as its just a part of who she is and who she is becoming.
K is very alert, enjoys company and is happy around other people which I think will be lovely as she gets older.

First angel resting 25/06/2009 stayed with us a short 7 weeks but we still miss you.

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