file Annoying People in the Shops!!!

16 years 3 months ago #58013 by Sheryl
I also wont like anyone touching my baby unless its close family

being pregnant now, and now that I am showing, people keep touching my tummy, and I dont like that, to me that is personal bond for the father and mother and of course close family to touch is okay

I get women rubbing my little tummy like a buddha and I still wear all my normal clothes, formal jackets everday and they still open my jacket and touch it or say lets see how your bump looks. the forwardness of people is shocking

it is driving me mad, but if I tell them not too, I think I am being rude and its not me but also its just gonna get worse. I dont go and touch other womens bellies, even friends. if asked to then I will but i never do it. of course you get the 2 cents comments like oh you too small or oh we can see now you showing .... I think they should give us pregnant women time off from work when we start showing, work place can be sometimes very stressful

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16 years 3 months ago #57979 by memo
OOO yes, when my baby was just born everone looked like germs to me! Especially children... so many people were popping in to come hold the baby, this was hard, all I could see was dog owner, cat owner, and the worst was when I got my baby back and he would smell like someones perfume!
Once a stranger just scooped my baby up, I didnt know how I was to murder her without putting my baby in harms way.

Natural birth mom, breastfeeding.
Baby boy born 17 March 2010

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16 years 3 months ago #56794 by lollipop
So promised I would report back on what happened if someone touches my boy again in the shops...the lady was to fast for me to grab a boob, but did tell her off for touching LB's hand. Was so proud of myself, just told her not to touch his hand cause he is going to stick it in his mouth now...boy oh boy was she miffed with me.

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16 years 4 months ago #50467 by *Joli*
I still freak out when I see someone 'pinching' a child's cheek - like - hey little one and grabbing their cheeks - I'm very rude when someone does that. I think I'm carrying baggage from childhood! I hated it!!

Hmmmm for the rest, it's hard not to touch a preggy women or baby when photographing them :-). Hope they don't mind. I do always wash my hands before a shoot :-).

I once went to Pick 'n Pay when I was still single and had to take Kayla with. Well at the till things really became hectic and I tried to unpack and Kayla was screaming her head off. The lady behind me was really nice and offered to help. She held Kayla for me so I could get my groceries sorted out. Still saying a little prayer for her every now and again.

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16 years 4 months ago #50394 by WorkingMom
Yuck, that is no excuse!!! Must have been a sicko

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16 years 4 months ago #50393 by Marijke
hehe, perhaps her gums were itching WorkingMom! :D

Married for 13 years

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16 years 4 months ago #50392 by WorkingMom
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
This is to funny - thanks girls!!!
I cannot get over the teething ring though - what is wrong with these people....

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