This was a very long on and off debate between me and DH for Mia starting before she was 1 year old. I was yes and he was no, then he gave in and I wasn't sure.
He said we must wait until she asks for it to be and explain all about it (thinking she will be about 8 years old when she asks for it to be done).
Anyway, I eventually gave up being a chicken and she got bigger and I was worried they'd get pulled at school or she would play with them and get them infected so I gave up the urge to pierce them.
Then in December she started asking about proper earings like mommy, granny and oumi that go through her ears as she was playing with the clip-ons. I explained it was sore and she said ok, but she still wants them. anyway, she kept asking for proper earrings and then in April one afternoon when I fetched her we walked past the chemist and she asked again, so in we went after explaining again it will be sore and the care afterwards. Done, screamed, got sweet, sobbed a bit for about 30 mins and never looked back. She's very proud of them and loves and shows them off.
That being said. Mia's earlobes are big and much bigger than Hannahs are and I really don't think I'll get Hannahs done until her ears grow - they're so tiny at the moment!!!!