Hi Ladies,
Shew it's been a while since I have left a message on here! Time is just flying. I go back to work in 4 weeks

Leaving Nathan at a creche, are any other ladies going back to work soon?
IreneL, congrats on the pregnancy! It is such a wonderful blessing! Lots of work, but worth every single second!

As for my birth story - it isn't a pretty one, I was one of the unlucky few. I went into preterm labour 3 times (32, 33 and 35 weeks) and eventually at 37 weeks they let him come - which is considered full term so I'm glad we made it that far! I planned on natural and I went into labour on christmas evening! The next morning my water still hadn't broken so the doctor broke it for me at 6:30am...by 12 I still wasn't dilating enough and baby was trying to push through and got stuck - they told me he wouldn't survive if we carried on with natural as he was in distress. So I had an emergency c-section....I have to tell you that I am the ONLY person I know that has had this happen - literally all of my other friends and women in antenatal class had c-sections and they loved the experience and were all fine! Anyway, the c section was long...I think there were some complications as hubby said he looked over at one point and my insides were outside on the table! The cut is also a lot longer than a normal c section. But I have the most perfect baby boy ever! I reacted to the meds badly as well. and I don't remember my first day with my son, but as soon as they stopped that morphine/pethidine concoction and took catheter out I stood up and felt a lot better. Pain was so bad for me, as I said I think my cut was a lot bigger than normal. They only took catheter out and stopped morphine the following day.
I had pain throughout the healing process and then my wound reopened from blood clots - so I had to get it drained twice a week at the hospital all the way up until 7 weeks post birth!
Anyway, sorry if I traumatise you...but that is just my story, which is one story, and it hardly ever happens like that!!! Even though I had a very hard time I would do it all again in a heartbeat and even go through more to be able to hold my son. Just be calm and do what needs to be done and all will be great! The main thing I learnt through everything is to just go with the flow and relax. Things happen that you cannot control - I am someone who always likes to plan and be in control - having a baby has taught me to just let some things go.Good luck with it all! Let us know how it goes!
I've attached some pics of my little guy, would love to see pics from all of you ladies