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11 years 4 months ago #259774 by Daerhel
Replied by Daerhel on topic August 2015
Hi Ayesha
So good to hear from you! Glad you're feeling a little better. You're still in my thoughts and prayers! You go girl, show that awful boss who is really the boss! According to law he's not allowed to refuse you your 6 weeks, it's a standard BCEA law. (Guess who's studying that for exams! Arrgh!)
God will show you the way. He has a plan for us all!
Big Hug to you girlfriend! :heart:

Stella, my next appointment is 26 May and my 4D scan is 29 May :) Can't wait!
Counting down the days already! hehe!

When it comes to the maternity leave, I myself am have no idea what to do. Waiting first to see if DF's opportunity needs us to move or not. If we do I'll have to resign before then. It all depends how quickly things work out. If we only need to move later I'm worried about taking the company's maternity benefit, as it is pro-rata and will have to be paid back in full if I resign within a year of receiving it, (that will include the 4 months in my 13th cheque too), and it's just too much money to have to pay back in cash.
Decisions and dilemmas!
Just too tired to even think about it right now. I've done tons of research, also helps that I have to study the BCEA for exams, but I'll look into all my options again after the exams. One week left to finish all the studying and POE! (Guess what I did all weekend! :()

I'm already struggling with sleep. Up at 2 or 3am every night, either thirsty or need the loo from all the water I drink during the night. Hope it gets better and not worse later on!

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11 years 4 months ago #259763 by BeautifullyAngie
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Hi Ayesha. Glad to hear from you. So sorry about your difficult boss :(

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11 years 4 months ago #259761 by StellaK
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Hi Ayesha,
big hug to you :heart:

what an ass of a boss.
really hoping that you find a much better job at just the right time.

lots of love to you

me 35, DH 39

TTC #1 since Oct 2012
March 2013 BFP, May 2013 MC at 10 weeks (Blighted Ovum)
6 Aug 2013 BFP, Gerhard gebore 8 April 2014
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#2 BFP 3 Jan, Franswa gebore 8 Aug 2015
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#3 TTC from Apr 2018
MC Oct 2018
BFP 23 Nov 2018
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11 years 4 months ago #259749 by ayesha07
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Thanx ladies, god has a plan for me and i trust that all will fall in place

Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014

EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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11 years 4 months ago #259747 by Prenessa
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Hello Ayesha.

You are in my daily prayers
Well just trust in god and you will find something.
Take care of yourself.

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11 years 4 months ago #259746 by bellyhearts
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Hi Ayesha,

Thanks for your messsage, so nice to hear from you again and so sorry to hear about your job! :heart:

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11 years 4 months ago #259745 by ayesha07
Replied by ayesha07 on topic August 2015
Hi ladies,

Just dropping by to see how u r?

I haven't forgotten you been reading the notifications, glad all the babies are doing well.

Thank you for keeping me in your prayers, mothers day coming up and it's getting me down, planning something for my MIL so keeping me busy

I am officially jobless, my boss is a pig and i resigned, he refused my 6 weeks leave got gatvol of his crap

Pregnancy confirmed 11/12/2014

EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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