Lovely topic and so nice to hear all the stories!!!
I also always had names chosen but now they are so old fashioned. I wanted Nathan and Natasha Lee.
After I got married I used to watch the credits run after movies and read all the names to get to see what names I liked / didnt like - also with characters in stories.
We watched Firefly a few years back and the one girl is Kaylee (Actually a longer name but shortened to this) - well the name simply stuck. DH always wanted a girl named Rei (Japanese spelling) also a name he heard on an anime series Evangelion but Kaylee just seemed more right for me at the time. No second names, however if I could I'd give her "Joy" as a second name as she has a prophetic word of Joy over her life and that's already evident!
So if we have another girl she will be Rei.
And if we have a boy we will have to decide between Eli and Kai.
I like both equally, but will probably let DH have his Kai since he didnt get Rei.
I also love Leah but now that we have Kaylee we cant have another 'lee'.
Maybe I must just have 5 kids