file Pregnancy after D&C

16 years 4 months ago #32403 by karatemum
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Lucy - Thanks, although hubby hasn't made up for it in any way yet, so still waiting! Interview went well though thank goodness, they seemed pretty happy with me and seems like a nice place, small only 3 other people there. So also a growing company and so room to grow with them which is nice. Need to wait and hear from them now. Sorry about you and your hubby fighting too, must be something with the planets lol, men!

klk - That's true, although sometimes they do things that make you want to smack them upside the head! He didn't come home till after I was in bed, so still haven't spoke properly yet as this afternoon he came home acting like all was fine, not cool, but don't want a fight I don't have the energy.

Girly - Yup he knew this was us starting again we spoke about it and decided to so he knew and if he didn't want to I said he can say something and we can hold off. I'm sure he is going through something too but just wish he'd say something how do I know unless he talks. Drives me insane. He came home when I was in bed and slept on the couch so didn't really talk or see much of each other this morning either then he comes home and acts like all is ok - now that just pee's me off so I need to calm down before we talk otherwise it'll just be a fight and we'll get nowhere.

Esmari - Sorry you aren't feeling so good, take it easy over the weekend. Sorry you may have to put off ttc, I hope all does come right for you in the end though, better to fully heal and then less chance of complications next time. Hugs and prayers for you.

Ika - Thanks, I also hope it gets worked out.

Sue - Thanks :)

h-buzz - He didn't come home till after I was in bed, so still haven't spoke properly yet as this afternoon he came home acting like all was fine, not cool, but don't want a fight I don't have the energy.

1 awesome monkey born March 2009 - MC in May 2010 - PCOS and endo - finally got my BFP on 14/04/2011

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16 years 4 months ago #32398 by LUCY W
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Klk - Good idea! I'll let you know how wiley I was tomorrow ;) I got in to St Lucia (to go to Umfolozi) on the weekend of the 4th June a week or 2 ago! So try you never know. I have just heard of a new place to stay 20min from one of the Umfolozi gates. Shout if you want the info.

MC in Jan 2010 (7wks)
TTCing for 1st Baba since June 2009
BFP !! EDD 4 April 2011
Tessa Amelie born 25 March 2011 via c sec in Ballito
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16 years 4 months ago #32396 by klk2678
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Oh no Lucy...i think you should still try and seduce your DH...slip on some sexy lingerie...no man can resist that! Good luck!

DH was going to let me go with but the trip is so short and it is a long wait in Dubai and with Connor i think it would have been a disaster. I think i may hint for a couple of days away at Tala but with the World cup coming up i doubt there will be any availability :(

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16 years 4 months ago #32387 by LUCY W
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Klk - Oh dear! Would be nice if you could go with!! Silly work :( We'll keep you company for the week!

Girly - Since you are preggy I think you are allowed to be emotional. Enjoy the cuddle under the blankie, sure your kitties will help keep you warm .... hope you manage to get the ticks sorted out. Try sprinkling pepper where you don't want them to go. Sometimes works!

HBuzz - I think I might do the same as you this weekend!

AFM - DH is barely talking to me ... so BDing is probably not gonna happen! I was in the shower this evening when I heard Feta in a fight. So I shouted to DH to go call I was coming. I had time to jump out shower, quickly dry myself and throw on some clothes and get down stairs, he hadn't budged!!!! GGrrrr then when Feta didn't come home for another hour I told him he irritates me and he could have let me know he didn't go out! Now I am getting the silent treatment. I was cross and upset over Feta (who is fine and cuddled up to me ... none the wiser!) GGGggrrrrrr!

MC in Jan 2010 (7wks)
TTCing for 1st Baba since June 2009
BFP !! EDD 4 April 2011
Tessa Amelie born 25 March 2011 via c sec in Ballito
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16 years 4 months ago #32385 by klk2678
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Nice Girly, where's your DH? Im pretty much home alone EVERY Friday, my DH plays poker. I must say i do quite like it as its me time. Enjoy your evening my friend :)

PS i sent you a mail but i got your out of office :(

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16 years 4 months ago #32379 by GirlyBlocked
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Lucy awesome about the braces!
Cant wait to see tomorrow's hike and lots of BD this weekend!

Esmari I'm glad its not all doom and gloom and that some women have had success with the treatments and no ops needed.
I know its tough, but maybe a few months healing will be good for you. I'm glad there is no pain etc.

Ika I remember those days, not so fondly. It's true though. We become so obsessed with TTC that our whole lives start to revolve around it. This isnt good when things dont happen the way we'd like. A refocus is the best thing you can do for yourself. And tell your hubby how you feel about this. He will be grateful for your honesty too.
And Lucy good idea :)

Sue glad your kitty is back to normal!
We are bathing ours tomorrow - as we seem to have a tick problem. Doesnt help that our house borders on farmland and the black one sleeps under our bushes during the day.
DH wont allow them in the room until they've been clean for 2 weeks. But they've spent their lives sleeping with us at night, I feel just awful.

Klk hehe not long to go now. And enjoy your time with Connor, and the time free of nausea, tiredness, sore boobs etc :D It's not all a walk in the park. Today I was uber emotional, almost cried at every thought, not nice. Oh and not to mention I cant sneeze without slightly losing myself. So grateful for pantyliners!

I cut my hair again. Not a whole lot shorter, but now above my shoulders. Undecided whether i like it or not, might be a few cm's too short for me. But oh well. Nothing a straightner cant fix :)

I'm home alone tonight. Kinda looking forward to cuddling up under the blankie. But a little restless and bored too.

First angel resting 25/06/2009
2nd angel Kaylee born 13/08/2010 2.83kg 47cm 33.5cm
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16 years 4 months ago #32320 by klk2678
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I am dying to go away too. Not too sure when that will happen too. My DH is going to China next Wednesday for a week so that means me home alone AGAIN!!

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