Pregnancy after D&C

Mom2B it is really hard going through this but I promise you with each day that passes it does get easier. In the beginning any little thing can set you off but as time geos on it gets a bit better. Please chat to us everyday - that's what helped each and every one of us get over our grief.

I'm so glad your DH is being supportive. Even though he doesn't cry like you do he is hurting as much as you. Men just deal with grief differently!

AFM just wanted to say we've had the best night ever since Kade was born!!! Only woke up 3 times!!! Only thing i've done differently is he's wearing an Amber teething necklace!

Oh Mom2B, we are all here for you. We totally understand what you are going through but each day does get better. Hang in there xxx

Thank you all for your kind words and support. I finally came home this morning as my fever came down and they pumped me full of antibiotics.

DH has been amazing and he never shows emotion but even he cried the first day with me but probably won't again but it was enough to show me he cared as he did not show much interest in the pregnancy. We have talked lots and he just holds me while I cry.

Have been a train wreck since I came home but slowly calming down (for now as you say anything small sets me off again!). I have had amazing support from so many people and my dad is here from Zimbabwe (although he as bad as DH, he is very old school British Colonial type) and he is trying his best to console me

The only thing keeping me going is knowing that we will try again and hopefully it is a smooth pregnancy next time around but terrified it will happen again.

Chan I hope you are coping and you get through this tough time.

KLK I hope the progesterone or the pill sorts out your lesions so you don't have to go through surgery.

Hope you are all having a good day...only 2 more days till the weekend

Chan a LO puts enough strain on your marriage without the lack of sleep! I hope that you and DH get through this trying time stronger!

klk - so glad you have a POA now. fx

Shrew - how you feeling at the prospect of leaving your LO when you go back to work! I think it must be awful

Debbie - ditto on the work front. Can't believe less than a month ago I was bored

AFM - DH and I are friends again the wicked witch has not shown up yet but min dae now I think. I can't wait to start TTC again!!! At least now when I cry for "no" reason I know it's hormones and not grief! The last time I got emotional and felt sorry for myself was about a month ago. Today when I was sobbing my way through Oprah I knew it was the wicked witch and not grief. Feels strangely good...

Hi there ladies. Wow, I have been mia for a looong time. Sorry, my airtime was on done, and I had no data.... But here I am.

Klk, I am so sorry to hear about the chemical. Glad you got to see the doc and that you have a poa! Fx!

Mom2be, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It's never easy......

Shrew, I almost thought what the heck, then I looked at the picture and knew who.... hehe.

Hallo to everyone else. Sorry that I don't do more personals. Just running on little time.

Chan, I am starting to feel just like you. It's been almost a week now that we have been getting very little sleep. Gerhardt used to sleep till anything from midnight to 1am, but now he suddenly wakes at 10pm, and then about every 2 hours. And he makes the loudest noises in his sleep. I am really ready to move him to his own room.....

Anyway, exept for that, I think he is going through a growth spurt. He drinks every 2 hours. He is such a big boy, giving us lots of smiles. Will upload some photos over the weekend or so.

6 weeks tomorrow! Going for his shots on Thursday.

Toodles. Now I am out of time

Mom2B - I am so sorry for your loss, everything that the ladies have said is true , talk /cry and talk it out some more. <Big Hugs>.

Shrew - Glad to here you are doing well , how is your LO doing?

Klk - So glad you have a active POA , lets hope that you have a BFP soon soon.

Angi - going to "old" gynie next Tuesday and specialist on the 1st of Nov.

ChanM - Hope things get better in all respects soon for you.

Dinky - Shame poor DH , got to give him a special hug today.

SH - good to see you around.

AFM - Eish work is getting hectic , dont know when it will lighten up.

Wow I have MISSED you gals. I changed my name for anonymity

Chan - I am so very sorry your marriage is taking strain and understandably so!!! It makes me very very sad I only hope the sort your lb out now!!! We have taken strain and Rowan sleeps.

Lucy / Klk - I often think of you both I am back at work in 2 weeks (there abouts so will be here more often )

Mom2be-March - I am terribly sorry for your loss. I literally cried myself to sleep until I had my lil boy in arms... so I am the worst to ask where from here.... venting helps as does emotional support. You will be asked at a later stage are you trying because people do not know how to relate. be prepared for it now

Angi - I am so glad your pregnancy is progressing well

Dinky - how are you holding up?